Ep. 798: Healing the Abandonment Wound

Ep. 798: Healing the Abandonment Wound

Author: JJ Flizanes January 27, 2026 Duration: 1:06:59

What if the deepest wound you carry isn't about what happened to you—but about whether you ever felt truly held by life itself?

In this powerful and intimate conversation, JJ is joined by a longtime soul sister, healer, and registered nurse who shares a deeply transformative experience that healed a lifelong sense of abandonment—not just from people, but from God, Source, and existence itself.

After more than 25 years of personal growth, spiritual practice, and emotional work, she realized there was still an existential fracture beneath it all: a quiet belief that life was not fully safe, that love could be given endlessly but not fully received, and that stepping into her full calling might come at a devastating cost.

What unfolded during a sacred, carefully held journey became a profound reclamation of safety, trust, and belonging—at the nervous-system and soul level.

This episode is not about escapism or quick fixes. It's about:

· How early experiences can fracture our sense of safety with life itself

· Why control often masks a fear of annihilation or abandonment

· What true surrender actually feels like in the body

· Healing the relationship with Source beyond religion or belief systems

· Learning to receive love after a lifetime of giving

· Releasing the fear that being fully seen could destroy you

· Embodiment, integration, and lasting nervous-system change

JJ also speaks to the importance of integrity, preparation, emotional readiness, and sacred containment—emphasizing that this kind of work is not for everyone, not always, and never casual.

At its core, this is a conversation about remembering who you are, restoring trust in life, and discovering that you were never alone—not for a single breath.

If you've ever felt:

· Like you don't fully belong here

· Afraid to take up space or be fully visible

· Deeply loving but unable to receive

· Spiritually devoted yet quietly disconnected

· Called to something more but scared of the cost

This episode may speak directly to your heart.

This is not an escape from life.It's an invitation into the truth of who you really are.

http://Karinrose.love


There’s a deep connection between how we care for our bodies and how we show up in our relationships-a truth that Fit 2 Love Podcast with JJ Flizanes explores with refreshing honesty. Hosted by empowerment strategist JJ Flizanes, this isn’t just another wellness show; it’s a thoughtful conversation about building a life where your physical health and emotional well-being aren’t competing priorities, but partners. Each episode feels like a candid chat with a knowledgeable friend, one who understands that a good date night might start with a great workout, or that spiritual clarity can influence what you choose to cook for dinner. You’ll hear practical advice on fitness and nutrition woven together with insights on dating, relationships, and personal growth, all grounded in a holistic view of what it means to truly thrive. This podcast recognizes that self-improvement isn’t a single lane-it’s the entire road map for creating the happy, healthy life you’re aiming for. Whether you’re looking for motivation to move your body or strategies to deepen your connections, JJ provides a nuanced perspective that goes beyond quick fixes. Tune in for a blend of inspiration and actionable steps that address the full picture of your wellness, from the kitchen to the gym to the heart.
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