Contract vs. a Covenant Mindset

Contract vs. a Covenant Mindset

Author: Focus on the Family April 30, 2026 Duration: 9:29

What's the difference between a contract vs. a covenant type of love? Dr. Greg Smalley answers that question. Then, Jim Daly talks with Dr. Gary Chapman on what real commitment in your marriage looks like. At the end, Erin and John will share what you can do if you're in a tough spot as a couple.

 

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Marriage is a journey filled with both profound joy and real challenges, and Focus on the Family Strengthening Marriage Podcast exists to walk alongside you through all of it. Host John Fuller, together with marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, creates a space for honest conversation about what it takes to build a lasting, fulfilling partnership. Rather than offering abstract theory, each episode delivers practical, down-to-earth insights grounded in a Christian perspective on God's design for marriage. You'll hear discussions on navigating conflict, rebuilding trust, deepening intimacy, and keeping your connection strong amidst life's constant demands. Whether you're newly married, decades in, or simply looking to strengthen your relationship's foundation, this podcast provides thoughtful guidance and genuine encouragement. The format is concise and focused, making it easy to fit meaningful conversation into your daily routine. Tune in for a blend of expert advice, relatable stories, and actionable steps that aim to transform not just your relationship, but your approach to life together. From Focus on the Family, this series is a trusted resource for anyone who believes a strong marriage is worth the intentional effort.
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Duration: 11:03
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Talking at the Heart Level [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 13:02
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She Climbed Out a Window [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 13:04
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“I Messed Up! Can My Story Be Redeemed?” [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 10:57
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Going for a Heart Walk [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 12:16
When was the last time you and your spouse went for a walk together? Erin Smalley discusses how the simple activity of going for a walk can help you and your spouse connect. Then, Jim Daly interviews Jim Turner on someth…
The Words You Say to Your Mate [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 10:03
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Getting Rid of Hurry-Syndrome [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 11:18
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Duration: 9:53
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When Temptation is Still Around [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 9:35
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Duration: 11:15
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