Even If Your Spouse Doesn’t Deserve Grace

Even If Your Spouse Doesn’t Deserve Grace

Author: Focus on the Family June 5, 2025 Duration: 13:46

How do you show your mate kindness when you don't feel like it? Sean and Lanette Reed speak with Jim Daly about how all of us need grace and a chance to grow sometimes. Also, John asks Greg Smalley about how grace has strengthened his marriage.

 

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Marriage is a journey filled with both profound joy and real challenges, and Focus on the Family Strengthening Marriage Podcast exists to walk alongside you through all of it. Host John Fuller, together with marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, creates a space for honest conversation about what it takes to build a lasting, fulfilling partnership. Rather than offering abstract theory, each episode delivers practical, down-to-earth insights grounded in a Christian perspective on God's design for marriage. You'll hear discussions on navigating conflict, rebuilding trust, deepening intimacy, and keeping your connection strong amidst life's constant demands. Whether you're newly married, decades in, or simply looking to strengthen your relationship's foundation, this podcast provides thoughtful guidance and genuine encouragement. The format is concise and focused, making it easy to fit meaningful conversation into your daily routine. Tune in for a blend of expert advice, relatable stories, and actionable steps that aim to transform not just your relationship, but your approach to life together. From Focus on the Family, this series is a trusted resource for anyone who believes a strong marriage is worth the intentional effort.
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When the Reactive Cycle Goes Negative [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 15:46
How are you and your spouse responding to conflict? Jim Daly speaks with Dr. Bob Paul and Tara Lalonde about something called, The Reactive Cycle, and when it goes wrong in your marriage. Then, Dr. Greg Smalley will give…
Reactions that Make Your Spouse Feel Safe [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 12:17
Every marriage needs to feel safe before both spouses can be open with each other. Erin shares about some ways her husband Greg makes her feel safe. Plus, Jim Daly talks with Dr. Bob Paul and Tara Lalonde about how real…
Roadblocks to Effective Communication [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 13:03
Do you think you have your spouse all figured out? The truth is, there's always something new to learn. Ryan Frederick and Jim Daly encourage husbands to work through communication barriers to better understand their wiv…
The Difference 3 Seconds Can Make [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 12:11
If you're ever mad with your spouse, it's good to pause before saying something you regret later. Greg and Erin Smalley talk about the value of pausing before you explode in a marriage argument. Also, Ryan Frederick join…
Lean into Your Spouse’s Strengths [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 14:37
How have your spouse's strengths been useful to you? John Fuller opens up a way his wife has helped him be a better man. Also, Dr. Kevin Leman talks with Focus President Jim Daly about how his wife has been good at catch…
The Value of Your Spouse’s Birth-Order [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 9:23
You and your spouse likely have different strengths. God designed it that way. But are you telling your spouse you appreciate their gifts? Dr. Kevin Leman and Jim Daly share about how a firstborn wife, who loves rules, c…
When Sex Isn’t Frequent [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 13:28
How do you handle seasons where you're not enjoying physical intimacy as much as you want in marriage? Jim Daly speaks to Erin Smalley and Sherri Mueller about when sex isn't happening much for married couples. Plus, Gre…
Leaving a Marriage Legacy [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 12:11
What will your kids say about your marriage in the future? Greg and Erin Smalley share how they stay inspired to remember they're building a legacy now. Also, Sean and Lanette Reed address how God wants us to bless not o…
What You Control, What You Don’t [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 11:46
It's easy to fixate on what your spouse is doing wrong. But real courage many times is focusing on what you need to work on. Erin Smalley addresses how a lot of couples in her counseling are too focused on their spouse's…
Can God Work a Miracle in Your Relationship? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 12:32
Have you ever reached a point in marriage where you didn't think you'd make it? John asks Greg Smalley about how he and Erin persevered through a challenging time in their relationship. Plus, Jim Daly talks to Dr. Bob Pa…