Why a 3 – 5 Year Plan Matters

Why a 3 – 5 Year Plan Matters

Author: Focus on the Family June 3, 2025 Duration: 11:21

When was the last time you and your spouse discussed where you want to be in 3 - 5 years? Erin Smalley addresses how a lot of couples are struggling with a sense of vision today. Also, Jim Daly speaks to Sean and Lanette Reed about how they've learned to set goals in their marriage.

 

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Marriage is a journey filled with both profound joy and real challenges, and Focus on the Family Strengthening Marriage Podcast exists to walk alongside you through all of it. Host John Fuller, together with marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, creates a space for honest conversation about what it takes to build a lasting, fulfilling partnership. Rather than offering abstract theory, each episode delivers practical, down-to-earth insights grounded in a Christian perspective on God's design for marriage. You'll hear discussions on navigating conflict, rebuilding trust, deepening intimacy, and keeping your connection strong amidst life's constant demands. Whether you're newly married, decades in, or simply looking to strengthen your relationship's foundation, this podcast provides thoughtful guidance and genuine encouragement. The format is concise and focused, making it easy to fit meaningful conversation into your daily routine. Tune in for a blend of expert advice, relatable stories, and actionable steps that aim to transform not just your relationship, but your approach to life together. From Focus on the Family, this series is a trusted resource for anyone who believes a strong marriage is worth the intentional effort.
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Think Legacy, Not Just this Moment [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 16:21
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Run to Love, Run from Porn [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 14:36
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First Progress, Then Regress, Now What? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 12:54
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Eating Disorders & Mental Illness [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 12:11
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Duration: 10:10
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Duration: 10:26
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Duration: 14:10
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Duration: 11:08
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Duration: 12:29
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Duration: 12:32
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