9: Behind the Curtain of Labor & Delivery: Rylee’s Freebirth Story

9: Behind the Curtain of Labor & Delivery: Rylee’s Freebirth Story

Author: Emilee Saldaya September 26, 2025 Duration: 1:12:14

What happens when you see behind the curtain of labor and delivery?



In this episode, I speak with Rylee, a young mother who chose to freebirth her first child after working inside the hospital system. From the vantage point of the “business of birth,” Rylee began to question everything she thought she knew about pregnancy. That unraveling brought her face-to-face with the deep dissonance between what she was told was “right” and what her body knew was true.


Carrying that knowing into her own pregnancy, she made the radical choice to step away from the system entirely. Rylee shares what it was like to work as a self-described “fearmongering phlebotomist,” to quit, and then to bring her baby earthside in her own power.


Her story is one of unlearning, reclaiming, and discovering the strength that emerges when a woman finally trusts herself.


What You’ll Hear:


  • Why Rylee walked away from working in a hospital
  • What it feels like to stand up to doctors and refuse routine procedures
  • The hidden link between hospital “convenience” and high C-section rates
  • Why even trusted OBs and familiar clinics can still feel wrong
  • How she found her rhythm and delivered her baby in a birth pool at home
  • The joy of her birth: laughing while pushing, with her mother and husband as witnesses


Timestamps:


[00:00] Introduction

[09:03] Starting to question the hospital method and learning about freebirth

[15:45] Climbing out of the system and trusting her instincts

[19:57] Defying the doctors and reclaiming her sovereignty

[28:15] Realizing that the hospital is a business

[36:37] Choosing who she wanted at her freebirth

[38:14] The psychedelic moment before labor began

[45:40] Moving into the second day of labour, feeling tired, and calling her Mom

[48:47] Exhausted, in a trance, and roaring through the portal of labor

[51:32] Finding her rhythm and bringing her baby earth side in the pool

[58:19] Getting out of the pool, the first cuddles, and delivering the placenta


If you want to connect more with Rylee, follow her on Instagram.


Watch Rylee’s birth video here.


Find more from Emilee on Instagram, YouTube and the Free Birth Society website.


Disclaimer: Free Birth Society, LLC of North Carolina shares personal and educational stories and experiences related to freebirth and holistic care. This content is not medical advice, and we are not a licensed midwifery practice. Testimonials reflect individual experiences; results may vary. For services or scheduling, contact info@freebirthsociety.com. See full disclaimer at freebirthsociety.com/youtubeterms.


Emilee Saldaya hosts Free Birth Society, a podcast that delves into the profound and personal choice of freebirth. This is not a discussion about home birth with professional support, but an intimate exploration of childbirth that unfolds without midwives, doulas, or medical intervention, guided solely by the birthing person and their family. Through conversations with wild women from around the globe, each episode presents a raw and unfiltered narrative, focusing on the lived experiences, the emotional landscapes, and the deep, often unspoken trust in the body's innate wisdom. These stories are honest, sometimes gripping, and frequently transformative, challenging mainstream perceptions of safety and authority. The dialogue within this podcast serves as both education and a form of self-improvement, examining the reclaiming of autonomy and the reconnection to ancestral knowledge. Listeners will hear not just the mechanics of unassisted birth, but the philosophical and personal journeys that lead individuals to this path. Emilee, as founder and guide, facilitates these discussions with a clear, grounded presence, allowing the complexity and beauty of each story to resonate. This podcast is for those curious about the edges of conventional maternity care, seeking to understand a paradigm where birth is treated as a private, powerful, and physiological event rather than a medical procedure. The Free Birth Society podcast creates a space for these rarely heard voices, offering a tapestry of experiences that are, above all, true to themselves.
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