I want to explore anal - Julia

I want to explore anal - Julia

Author: Leah Carey November 24, 2021 Duration: 1:28:29

How do you know you're queer if you don't even know that's an option? It's hard to imagine what we can't see.

Julia takes us through confusing early fantasies to landing that first girl-kiss to realizing what it means to love people with vaginas in all their gender presentations. Now she wants to start exploring anal play.

Julia is a 27-year-old cisgender woman. She describes herself as white, queer, monogamous, and she doesn't have kids. She still gets a regular period and describes her body as tall and thin.

Julia has a non-binary partner, so we get to talk about how she navigates her partner's gender dysphoria.

  • Dating a non-binary partner
  • Navigating dysmorphia
  • Early fantasies
  • Voyeurism and exhibitionism
  • Queer/pansexual identity in the bedroom
  • Losing lesbian virginity
  • Learning what you like
  • Butt stuff—how to start exploring anal play
    The Lowdown: favorite sex toys, strap-on penetration, clit stimulation, masturbation

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Full show notes available at: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/exploring-anal-play-julia/

 

Update: 
Since this episode was released, the podcast has concluded. Here's how you can find me now:

 

EPISODE CREDITS:

Host / Producer – Leah Carey (email)
Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby
Administrative Support - Lara O'Connor, Maria Franco

Transcript creation – Jan Acielo
Music – Nazar Rybak

 


Leah Carey's Good Girls Talk About Sex is built on a simple, powerful premise: honest, unfiltered conversation. As a Sex and Intimacy Coach, Leah guides discussions that feel less like interviews and more like the kind of intimate, revealing talk you'd share with a close friend. Each episode features women from an incredibly wide spectrum of life-differing in size, shape, age, orientation, and cultural or religious background. The stories include those from people raised as girls and transgender women, exploring a full range of relationship structures and levels of kink. What you'll hear are personal narratives about sexuality that are often left unspoken, shared without judgment. This podcast moves beyond theory into the lived, human experience, creating a rare space where complexity is welcomed and authenticity is the only rule. Tuning in means listening to voices that are frequently marginalized, finding common ground in unexpected places, and perhaps understanding your own story a little better through the generous sharing of others.
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