To Envy is Human: The Philosophy of Our Most Misunderstood Emotion with Dr. Sara Protasi

To Envy is Human: The Philosophy of Our Most Misunderstood Emotion with Dr. Sara Protasi

Author: Gwendolyn Dolske, PhD & Rudy Salo | Philosophy & Education Podcast March 28, 2024 Duration: 44:04

You feel it. You hide it. Philosophy says you might be wrong to.

Envy is almost universally condemned, called a deadly sin, a character flaw, something to suppress and never admit to. But what if the story we tell about envy is incomplete? What if some forms of envy aren't moral failures at all but windows into our deepest values, our most honest desires, and even our capacity for growth?

In this episode of Good Is In The Details, Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo sit down with Dr. Sara Protasi, philosopher at the University of Puget Sound and author of The Philosophy of Envy (Cambridge University Press) — winner of the 2024 Joseph B. Gittler Prize from the American Philosophical Association.

Dr. Protasi argues that envy is more multifaceted than it seems, and that some varieties of it can be productive and even virtuous — bringing together empirical evidence and philosophical research to identify four distinct kinds of envy: emulative, inert, aggressive, and spiteful. Understanding which kind of envy you're feeling, she argues, tells you something important about who you are and what you value.

What we explore in this episode:

  • The four kinds of envy — emulative, inert, aggressive, and spiteful — and what each one reveals about the envier's situation, psychology, and motivations.
  • Why emulative envy — the kind that makes you want to rise to the level of the person you envy rather than bring them down — can be genuinely virtuous and self-improving.
  • How to tell the difference between envy and jealousy — and why the distinction matters more than you think
  • How to distinguish envy from resentment — and the simple philosophical test Dr. Protasi proposes for figuring out which one you're actually feeling.
  • Why philosophy has historically ignored emotions, and what we lose when we treat reason as the only thing worth examining
  • What envy reveals in the context of personal loving relationships, and why envy is possible, even unavoidable, in relationships we care about most.
  • Envy in the political sphere: what it reveals about equality, fairness, and what we believe others deserve
  • What it means to get "real and human" about an emotion most of us have been taught to hide — and why that honesty is itself a philosophical act.

This is the episode that makes it safe to look your envy in the eye; not to indulge it, but to understand it. And understanding it, Dr. Protasi shows, is how it becomes useful.

Guest: Dr. Sara Protasi — philosopher, University of Puget Sound. Author of The Philosophy of Envy (Cambridge University Press, 2021). Winner of the 2024 Joseph B. Gittler Prize, American Philosophical Association.

Learn more about Dr. Sara Protasi: https://saraprotasi.weebly.com

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Hosted by Gwendolyn Dolske, Ph.D., and Rudy Salo, Good Is In The Details operates on the belief that the most profound insights are often hidden in plain sight, waiting to be unpacked. This philosophy and education podcast doesn't just skim the surface of big topics; it lingers there, examining the nuances of how we think, learn, and ultimately live our lives. You'll hear thoughtful, meandering conversations with scholars, authors, and practitioners from diverse fields, all centered on how ideas from ethics, culture, and critical thinking intersect with our daily realities. The hosts have a knack for breaking down complex academic concepts without losing their depth, making each episode feel like an engaging seminar you can enjoy on a walk or during your commute. Rather than offering easy answers, this podcast provides the tools and perspectives to ask better questions, finding the substance in the subtleties that we often overlook. It’s for anyone who believes that understanding the framework of an argument or the history of a thought is just as important as the conclusion. Tune in for a consistently thoughtful exploration of the books, theories, and cultural forces that quietly shape our world.
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