STOP Chasing This Person And Do This Instead (they will chase you)

STOP Chasing This Person And Do This Instead (they will chase you)

Author: Sean Kim May 26, 2026 Duration: 1:12:31

Kyle Cease is a transformational comedian and New York Times bestselling author who walked away from a thriving stand-up career — including two #1 Comedy Central specials and over 100 film and TV appearances — to help people break through fear, heal their inner wounds, and live in alignment with their truest selves. His books I Hope I Screw This Up and The Illusion of Money have reached millions, and today he leads sold-out live events, weekly interactive sessions, and a global online community through his Infinite Expansion platform. Kyle's work blends humor, deep presence, and spiritual authenticity to guide people back to their own hearts — living proof, alongside his wife Amber and daughter Vivi, that when you follow your heart completely, you remember you already are everything you were seeking.


In our conversation we discuss:

(0:00) Intro

(01:43) Kyle's Transformation Since Last Appearance

(03:51) How His Father Shaped His Overdeveloped Feminine Side

(04:32) Discovering the Untapped Wolf Within — The Core Masculine

(06:12) Wound-Matching in Relationships — Why Broken People Attract Broken People

(06:59) Stop Asking "What Do I Do?" — Ask "What Am I?"

(09:14) Why Your Solution to the Wound Is Still the Wound

(12:28) 16,000 One-on-Ones: The Core Wound Beneath Every "Have To"

(13:19) "You're Allowed to Be a Failure" — The Permission That Changes Everything

(16:11) The Woman Who Hadn't Spoken to Her Mom in 8 Years

(22:19) How Neediness Attracts the Wrong Partners

(23:24) The Permission Slip That Made Him Complete Alone

(23:53) Dying Alone in the Woods & Dreaming of an Angel with Freckles

(25:20) The Moment He Knew — "That's the Answer to My Life"

(47:26) The Road Rage Sketch That Got 3.5 Million Views Without Trying

(52:46) The Four Stages of Consciousness That Explain Every Human Pattern


Learn more about Kyle here:Website: https://www.kylecease.com/"I Hope I Screw This Up: How Falling In Love with Your Fears Can Change the World": https://a.co/d/09cgNzSV"Evolving Out Loud" Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Wac7GzDVFMMdPiCofRiIj

Listen to this episode on Youtube: https://youtu.be/yqc0L-rGrZg📸 Connect on IG: https://instagram.com/growthminds.podcast


Sean Kim hosts Growth Minds with Sean Kim, a podcast built on the idea that meaningful growth touches every part of our lives. Each episode features a deep, unscripted conversation with a leading voice, moving beyond simple tips to explore the philosophies and personal stories behind their success. You’ll hear from an incredibly diverse roster, from financial thinker Robert Kiyosaki and neuroscientist Dr. Andrew Huberman to cultural icons like Dennis Rodman and musicians like Steve Aoki. The discussions naturally weave through interconnected themes of physical health, mental resilience, financial wisdom, and personal relationships. Whether it’s Dr. Jason Fung breaking down metabolic health or Wim Hof explaining his breathing methods, the focus is on practical insights you can apply. This isn’t about abstract theory; it’s about the tangible habits and mindset shifts that help you build a better life. Tune in for a consistently surprising and substantive dialogue that challenges how you think about your own potential.
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