187: A Sober Awakening and Liberation From the MLM Mirage with Emily Paulson

187: A Sober Awakening and Liberation From the MLM Mirage with Emily Paulson

Author: Simona Costantini June 27, 2023 Duration: 28:06

Finding connection is a huge drive in all of our lives and it’s no secret that people have found what they were looking for in MLM and alcohol use. Even if they later realize that these solutions are much more destructive than they are good. 

My guest Emily Lynn Paulson is the author of Highlight Real: Finding Honesty and Recovery Beyond the Filtered Life, and Hey, Hun: Sales, Sisterhood, Supremacy, and the Other Lies Behind Multilevel Marketing. 

She has given two powerful TEDx talks, both challenging the status quo of parenting, alcohol use, and feminism as we know it. 

Emily is going to take us on her journey of sobriety and rediscovering herself and her community after leaving MLM. 

 

We’re going to dig into:

  • [1:20] What does happiness mean to Emily

  • [3:02] How Emily got involved with MLM and the similarities between that and alcohol use

  • [5:52] The fear of things not being fun, or missing out when finding sobriety

  • [8:37] The shift of the societal conversation toward wellness in relation to alcohol

  • [10:18] How both MLM and alcohol filled her need for community

  • [13:14] When Emily realized she needed to get out of her MLM once she found sobriety

  • [16:09] How was her community affected when she found sobriety and left the MLM industry

  • [21:38] What was the inspiration for Emily’s book

  • [24:02] Her healing journey and repairing relationships after leaving the MLM

  • [25:32] How can someone create a little more happiness each day starting today


 

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We all ask those big questions about contentment and purpose at some point. Happiness Happens doesn’t treat those queries as abstract philosophy, but as a practical, weekly conversation hosted by Simona Costantini. Rather than offering a rigid formula, this podcast explores the many facets of a meaningful life through dialogues with thoughtful guests from various fields. You’ll hear from psychologists, artists, thinkers, and everyday people who have found unique pathways to fulfillment. The discussions are grounded in real experience, focusing on actionable insights that go beyond simple positive thinking. Each episode feels like a deep dive into a different corner of the human experience, whether it’s examining the role of community, the pursuit of creative passion, or the quiet practice of self-acceptance. Simona guides these conversations with a genuine curiosity, making complex ideas about well-being feel accessible and personal. The result is a resource that feels both expansive and intimately useful. Tuning into this podcast is less about searching for a single secret and more about gathering a toolkit-a collection of perspectives and practices that help you define what happiness actually means in your own life. It’s for anyone who believes that a more contented life is built from a series of conscious choices and deeper understandings, one honest conversation at a time.
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