216: 3 Ways to Start the Process of Letting Go with Susan Casey

216: 3 Ways to Start the Process of Letting Go with Susan Casey

Author: Simona Costantini January 23, 2024 Duration: 31:00

In this week’s episode of the Happiness Happens podcast, I have the incredible privilege of diving deep into the human experience and exploring the pursuit of genuine joy. In this special episode, I had the honor of sitting down with Susan Casey, an extraordinary author, podcaster, speaker, and creator. Susan's work revolves around themes of grief, loss, internal well-being, and higher consciousness. Join me as I recount this transformative conversation about discovering true happiness, releasing what no longer serves us, and nurturing a deep sense of self-love.

 

It all began with a beautiful twist of fate. Susan Casey, a passionate human seeking to start her own podcast, found me on Instagram. Together, we embarked on a journey that would lead us to create a podcast that has since evolved into a vibrant community centered around grief, loss, and personal growth. Susan's presence in my life is truly a shining beacon of light, radiating love and wisdom.

 

In our conversation, I wasted no time in delving into the core question: "What does happiness mean to you?" Susan's response left me in awe as she emphasized the profound importance of authenticity. According to Susan, true happiness is found when we embrace our most authentic selves, inviting all emotions and experiences to shape our joy. It's about embracing the full spectrum of our humanity, rather than suppressing or avoiding certain feelings.

 

During our discussion, we explored the dangerous habit of self-invalidation and self-judgment, and the toll it takes on our happiness and connection to self. Susan poignantly revealed how we tend to be overly critical of ourselves, dismissing and judging our own emotions. However, she urged us to practice self-love, highlighting the necessity of embracing all our experiences and offering ourselves the compassion we deserve.

 

Seeking a deeper understanding, I raised a question about individuals who have experienced trauma or intense pain and how self-invalidation affects their healing process. Drawing upon her expertise as a therapist, Susan brought forth a perspective that resonated with me. She believes that our souls choose specific life paths and experiences for the purpose of growth, healing, and expansion, even if it may be difficult to comprehend at times.

 

Our conversation then turned towards the concept of letting go and its profound impact on our well-being. Susan eloquently likened our ability to let emotions pass through us to a screen allowing wind to pass through. By avoiding emotional buildup and explosions, we open up space for healing and transformation. Susan emphasized the importance of nurturing a connection with our higher consciousness through practices like meditation, automatic writing, and engaging in joyful activities.

 

As our enlightening conversation neared its end, I asked Susan for practical steps to incorporate letting go and inviting more happiness into our lives. Her response centered around the fundamental practice of self-compassion. By releasing self-judgment and embracing self-love, we lay the groundwork for growth and transformation. These acts of self-compassion allow us to authentically shine and live a life brimming with joy.

 

My conversation with Susan Casey was nothing short of extraordinary. In her presence, I discovered the profound essence of happiness and the paramount importance of embracing authenticity. Through self-compassion, releasing what no longer serves us, and fostering a connection with our higher consciousness, we embark on a profound journey of self-discovery, healing, and unbridled joy. I hope sharing this conversation inspires you to wholeheartedly embrace your authenticity and awaken the untapped wellspring of joy...


We all ask those big questions about contentment and purpose at some point. Happiness Happens doesn’t treat those queries as abstract philosophy, but as a practical, weekly conversation hosted by Simona Costantini. Rather than offering a rigid formula, this podcast explores the many facets of a meaningful life through dialogues with thoughtful guests from various fields. You’ll hear from psychologists, artists, thinkers, and everyday people who have found unique pathways to fulfillment. The discussions are grounded in real experience, focusing on actionable insights that go beyond simple positive thinking. Each episode feels like a deep dive into a different corner of the human experience, whether it’s examining the role of community, the pursuit of creative passion, or the quiet practice of self-acceptance. Simona guides these conversations with a genuine curiosity, making complex ideas about well-being feel accessible and personal. The result is a resource that feels both expansive and intimately useful. Tuning into this podcast is less about searching for a single secret and more about gathering a toolkit-a collection of perspectives and practices that help you define what happiness actually means in your own life. It’s for anyone who believes that a more contented life is built from a series of conscious choices and deeper understandings, one honest conversation at a time.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Happiness Happens
Podcast Episodes
185: Finding Financial Freedom and Peace with Lewis Crompton [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 33:56
When you think of financial peace, what does that mean to you? Is it something that even seems within your reach? Or does it feel like there are mindset blocks that keep you from finding freedom within money? My guest to…
184: Are You on the Wrong Path? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 17:49
Have you been struggling with the idea of being on the wrong path? It’s something that’s very natural to wonder about, and easy to go down a rabbit hole of second-guessing our choices. In this episode, I share with you h…
182: Living With Your Full Heart with Tom Glaser [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:13
In this week’s episode, Tom Glaser, an expert in happiness and fulfillment, shares his perspective on what happiness truly means. Drawing from his background in psychotherapy, he offers valuable insights into the human m…
181: Accessing Your Big Inner Purpose with Christian De La Huerta [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 36:42
I cannot wait for you all to hear this conversation I had with Christian De La Huerta about spirituality, finding our purpose, and what can keep us from it. We also talk about our history with religion and spirituality,…
179: What You Need to Know When You’re Going Through Change [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 21:46
Today I’m tackling a topic that’s been top of my mind recently - change. We all go through seasons of change in our lives and I want to a dive a little deeper into why we get those sudden urges for change and how we can…
178: How to Navigate Feeling Unworthy with Sandra Chuma [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:15
In this episode, we’re talking about what it means to feel worthy with my guest Sandra Chuma. Sandra grew up in a tiny mud hut in Zimbabwe without running water or electricity at a time when the country was segregated an…