#543 The Ripple Effect: Understanding Why Hurt People Hurt People

#543 The Ripple Effect: Understanding Why Hurt People Hurt People

Author: Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. July 11, 2025 Duration: 14:31

The Ripple Effect: Understanding Why Hurt People Hurt People

Have you ever wondered why someone you know, who's clearly struggling, ends up hurting those around them? It's a painful paradox: the very people carrying deep wounds sometimes inflict them on others. Today, we're going to explore this complex dynamic, understanding that while understanding is never an excuse, it's the first step toward breaking cycles of harm.

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