#573 Drinking the Poison: The Hidden Cost of Hating Your Enemies

#573 Drinking the Poison: The Hidden Cost of Hating Your Enemies

Author: Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. February 6, 2026 Duration: 12:49

You can be 100% right about the facts, but if you are wrong in your internal state, you still lose the battle for your own happiness. This episode uncovers the hidden cost of 'psychological violence' and proves that true power comes from a calm mind, not a hateful one. Let's explore how to protect your heart from the poison of resentment so you can remain strong, clear, and truly free.

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