#580 The Comfort of the Cage: Why We Fear the Open Door

#580 The Comfort of the Cage: Why We Fear the Open Door

Author: Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. March 27, 2026 Duration: 12:01

Years ago, during my clinical internship at a VA hospital, I worked with a man who had spent most of his adult life in prison. When he was finally released, the vastness of his freedom terrified him so much that his only desire was to go back to his cell. In this episode, we are going to explore why human beings are so deeply wired to choose familiar misery over the terrifying unknown, and how to finally step out of the invisible cages we build for ourselves.

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