Dating Advice for Singles That Isn’t Cringe or Cliche

Dating Advice for Singles That Isn’t Cringe or Cliche

Author: Jeanine Amapola February 3, 2026 Duration: 49:33
Kaleb and I are Kicking off our Relationship series by tackling a topic we ALL start at: singleness. Whether you’re single and thriving, single and frustrated, or just figuring it out — this episode is for you. We got real about what it’s like being single in today’s culture (Christian and not), the myths we were fed, and how to actually make the most of your single season. We talked about red flags, emotional baggage, addiction, and yes — the espresso martini epidemic 😂. But most importantly, we talked about how to live authentically, pursue purpose, and become the kind of person you’d want to date. In This Episode 01:00 – Why We’re Talking About Singleness 03:00 – What Being Single Really Feels Like 06:00 – Singleness in Christian Culture vs. the World 10:30 – What to Actually Do While You’re Single 14:45 – Do You Really Have to Be “Fully Healed” First? 19:00 – Addictions, Red Flags & Self-Accountability 24:00 – Living for Likes: The Social Media Trap 30:00 – That “Single Culture” Lifestyle (and Why It’s Risky) 41:00 – Final Advice: Secure in Christ, Not Just a Relationship Thanks to Our Sponsors BetterHelp: This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at ⁠⁠betterhelp.com/HAPPYHEALTHY⁠⁠ and get on your way to being your best self. NOCD: If you think you might be struggling with religious OCD, don't wait. Head over to nocd.com to book a free 15-minute call with their team today. If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Advertise With Us⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ form! Follow us on Instagram!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Happy and Healthy⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jeanine⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jeanine and Kaleb⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on TikTok! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Happy and Healthy⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jeanine Amapola has built a life around sharing real stories and practical wisdom, and now she’s bringing that same warm, conversational energy to Happy & Healthy with Jeanine Amapola. As a Texas-born creator and author with a community of millions, Jeanine knows that genuine growth happens at the intersection of faith, culture, and everyday life. In this podcast, you’ll find candid discussions that feel like a coffee chat with a thoughtful friend, covering everything from personal faith and spiritual practices to navigating modern relationships and societal pressures. The conversations are rooted in a Christian perspective but are designed for anyone interested in building a more intentional and joyful life. You’ll hear Jeanine’s own experiences, lessons learned from both stumbles and successes, and insights on how to cultivate resilience and purpose. It’s more than just advice; it’s about finding a healthier mindset and a happier heart through authentic connection. Tune in for a space where self-improvement meets spirituality, all explored with Jeanine’s characteristic positivity and honesty.
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Why Do We Need Jesus? My Story of Finding Him |  Faith Friday Ep. 1 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 28:53
Welcome to the first Faith Friday episode! Yay! Every single Friday I will now be doing an audio-only solo episode packed with advice, Scripture, encouragement, and Bible teaching! I am sooo excited for these! Grab yours…
Mistakes I Made in My 20's (Please Learn From These) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 51:10
In today’s episode, I open up about the lessons, regrets, and mistakes I made in my 20s. From being lukewarm in my faith, losing my virginity, wasting money, chasing the wrong guys, desperate to be liked, and going ALL I…
Our 2026 Goals (and Where We Completely Failed Last Year) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:09:04
Hey friends! Kaleb and I are so excited to kick off 2026 with this episode! Kaleb and I sat down and had a really honest convo about where we crushed it last year… and where we definitely did not 😂. From faith goals to f…
Our Hardest Year Yet and What It Taught Us… (We Risked Everything) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:11:06
This week, Kaleb and I sat down and recapped the highlights and lowlights of 2025—from the terrifying lows (law school denial and NICU stay 😭) to the sweetest highs (baby Duke, our move, and big answered prayers!). We ta…
We Have Conspiracy Theory Fatigue… And We’re Moving to New York?? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 41:46
We’re talking about conspiracy theory fatigue — the way everything online lately feels so dramatic, divided, and honestly… draining. We’re not saying you can’t question things , but we’re asking: at what point does it ju…