Unpopular Opinion: Parenting Teens Is Tougher Than Newborns

Unpopular Opinion: Parenting Teens Is Tougher Than Newborns

Author: Mamamia Podcasts May 2, 2024 Duration: 17:03

The sleepless nights, the expensive feeding, the mess... Just when you thought you were done with those years, your child becomes a teenager. This episode we discuss all the things that surprised us about becoming parents of teens and why we found those to be the hardest years.

Plus, what happens when your teen starts to distance themselves? Ginni and Jo share their insights and tips on fostering meaningful connections without pushing too hard.

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Hosts: Dr Ginni Mansberg & Jo Lamble

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Producer: Tahli Blackman

Audio Production: Scott Stronach

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Navigating the modern maze of adolescence can leave any parent feeling lost. Between the social media whirlwind, the pressures unseen in previous generations, and the daily negotiations, it's easy to feel like you're flying blind. That's where Help! I Have A Teenager comes in. Hosted by Dr. Ginni Mansberg and clinical psychologist Jo Lamble, this podcast from Mamamia Podcasts offers a grounded, practical lifeline. What you'll hear isn't just theory; both hosts are clinicians and parents themselves, bringing their professional expertise and personal experience straight to your ears. They tackle the real stuff-from navigating online safety and tricky social dynamics to understanding the emotional rollercoaster-with a clear-eyed, common-sense approach. This isn't about achieving perfection, but about finding actionable strategies and a bit of reassurance in the chaos. Tune in for honest conversations that cut through the panic, offering a sensible path forward for families. It's the supportive, evidence-based chat you need when the world of parenting a teen feels overwhelmingly new.
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