24: Wedding Nightmare, Bridesmaid Burnout & Hot Takes With Lisandra Vazquez

24: Wedding Nightmare, Bridesmaid Burnout & Hot Takes With Lisandra Vazquez

Author: Party Planning by Christa July 3, 2025 Duration: 54:26
Ever felt like saying no to being a bridesmaid? Lisandra Vazquez spills the raw truth about why she’s done with being in wedding parties… forever.

From destination weddings she never even made it to, to the awkward aftermath when friends cut ties, Lisandra and Christa unpack the messy side of adult friendships, money guilt, and wedding obligations no one talks about.

If you’ve ever felt pressured to go broke for someone else’s big day, grab your headphones. You’re not alone and this episode is your permission slip to protect your peace.

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Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments

  • When Destination Weddings Become Too Much – The shocking story of how a canceled flight ended a friendship for good.
  • Hot Takes On Outdated Traditions – Garter tosses, group chats, and destination showers—Lisandra says what we’re all thinking.
  • Real Talk: It’s Okay To Walk Away – How standing up for your time, money, and sanity saves friendships worth keeping.
  • Comedy, Culture & Creative Hustle – Lisandra shares her creative journey from acting to stand-up and finding her voice online.
  • Permission To Protect Your Peace – Christa and Lisandra wrap with empowering advice for anyone feeling stuck in wedding guilt.
About Lisandra

Lisandra is a Puerto Rican-born, Atlanta-based stand up comedian, actor, activist, and creator. With a background in acting and improv, Lisandra's high-energy yet dry storytelling point of view is based on her experiences as a Latina millennial, her take on pop culture, politics, and more. She is a regular at the Laughing Skull Lounge and has performed all over the country.

She has opened for Aida Rodriguez, Dulcé Sloan, Lace Larrabee, and other touring comics.

She has worked with organizations like Climate Power, Generation180, GasLeaks, and more.

*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.

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45: Thanksgiving Special: Gratitude, Growth & Empowering Moments [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 58:31
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44: MILs, Feuds & Furry Guests — From the Vault with My MOH Ivette [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 46:16
When "I do" turns into "I don't know what to do." Wild.From unexpected guest list debates to a mother-in-law meltdown that left everyone speechless, Me and my best friend Ivette dive into the wild world of wedding chaos.…
42: Late Vendor, Red Flags & A Family Dressed in all Black [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 36:14
What happens when your in-laws hate you so much they all wear black to your wedding? This week, I’m diving into a listener story that starts with a secret elopement and ends in family chaos. We're talking group chat melt…
39: Drunk Groom, Lost Eye & Celebrity Breakups with Cora Lakey [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 57:14
Ever seen a groom so drunk the venue owner had to hold him up for the cake cutting?Yeah… it’s that kind of episode. Christa and Cora Lakey spill the tea on one of the wildest wedding stories ever submitted: Fireball shot…
38: Venmo Requests, Demanding In-Laws & A Bride’s Outrageous Ask [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:53
What’s worse: your dad bailing on your wedding and then sending you a Venmo request for the deposit, or your mother-in-law going on vacation with his ex? Yeah… welcome to this week’s chaos. I’m kicking things off with a…
37: The Forced Bridesmaid, the Wedding Villain, and a Shocking Twist [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 35:35
“My sister wore a WHITE GOWN… to my rehearsal dinner.”Yep, that actually happened. This week, I’m spilling not one, but two jaw-dropping wedding stories where guests went full villain mode. We’re talking sisters stealing…