221 – Hardware and Tools

221 – Hardware and Tools

Author: JOY 94.9 - LGBTI, LGBTIQA+, LGBT, LGBTQ, LGB, Gay, Lesbian, Trans, Intersex, Queer Podcasts for all our Rainbow Communities January 15, 2026 Duration: 49:26

New year, new holes in your walls — consensually, of course. So let’s get to the hardware store and get some big tools! In this practical, cheeky episode, Hide and Seek, explores DIY sex and kink projects, from plumbed shower douches to slings, A-frames, and at-home gloryholes.

Jon and Craig walk through what’s genuinely DIY-friendly versus when it’s smarter (and safer) to call a tradie. Installing a douche? Probably doable if you can manage a shower head and thread tape. Ceiling eye-bolts? Get professional help. We talk tools, materials, weight ratings, ergonomics, and the very real importance of testing setups before you put a person in them.

The episode also digs into safety beyond construction: splinters, chafing, privacy, theft risk, and why comfort matters just as much as creativity. Not every fantasy needs to be built — but if you are building it, do it well.

This is a fun, grounded reminder that kink at home can be inventive, accessible, and deeply satisfying — as long as safety, durability, and consent come first.

Don’t remember How to Build a Sex Room? Listen to our episode, Dungeons and Daddies!

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This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

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Tune in to Hide & Seek for candid, thoughtful, and often hilarious conversations that explore the full spectrum of human experience within our rainbow communities. Produced by JOY 94.9, this podcast creates a welcoming space where nothing is off the table, blending expert insight with relatable personal stories. Each episode feels like a chat with well-informed friends who aren’t afraid to laugh while discussing the serious, the silly, and everything in between. You’ll hear discussions that thoughtfully navigate the intersections of sexuality, identity, health, and culture, all grounded in a commitment to inclusivity. The show’s unique mix of comedy and genuine curiosity makes complex topics accessible and engaging. Whether it’s fitness for diverse bodies, the nuances of relationships, or societal shifts affecting LGBTIQA+ lives, this podcast approaches it with both heart and humor. It’s more than just talk; it’s a resource and a community, reflecting the vibrant diversity of the people it serves. For anyone looking to understand more about themselves or the world around them, Hide & Seek offers a refreshingly honest and joyful listen.
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