S4E69: Democratic and Self Directed: Monica Truong

S4E69: Democratic and Self Directed: Monica Truong

Author: Robyn Robertson March 12, 2020 Duration: 1:24:15

Monica Truong, unschooling mom and self directed learning advocate. In this episode Monica "schools" me on child-led democratic education, self directed learning and creating a culture of respect, trust and sovereignty.

Democratic and Self Directed

Monica Truong was born in Vietnam and came to Canada with her family as a refugee at the age of 6. She has a BSc in Chemistry and likes to joke that she works with the "chemistry" of people, as she has never worked in her field of study. Monica taught English in Asia for 12 years and travelled to as many countries. When her oldest started school, Monica also decided to go back to school and received her diploma in Architectural Technology. In another twist of fate, she never worked in that field either and started homeschooling instead. Monica is learning and living with her husband and two daughters. Two years ago, she and two other moms, Sheri Daley and Sarah Atkinson, started the Chinook Free Learners Community Coop. Chinook Free Learners is a child-led, democratic learning centre inspired by Sudbury School and Agile Learning Centres.

What To Listen For In This Episode

  • The three reasons that led Monica to unschooling
  • The beliefs that she had to let go of around what it means to be a good or "smart" student
  • Why she is an advocate for self directed learning and democratic schooling
  • What she tells her traditionally minded parents about unschooling and their democratic learning centre
  • Self directed learning and how it works
  • How a democratic, agile learning centre works
  • Will kids learn if you don't teach them?
  • What about math and reading?
  • Won't kids make bad choices if they are given freedom?
  • The biggest challenges for Chinook Free Learners and unschooling?
  • Letting go of mom guilt
  • Monica's hope for education and children?
  • What advice would she give to a parent that's interested in unschooling or a democratic learning centre?

Monica's hope for children is that they know they are powerful, that they are free and sovereign people and that they can make a difference in the world. I think that she is well on her way to making this a reality.

Notable Quotes and Resources

"I read a book called 'A Child Called It'....After reading it I came to the realization that our children will love us, no matter how awful we can be as parents and it made me want to do the best I can. Well actually, better than I can. Because I want to feel that I really deserve the love of my children." Monica Truong

"I homeschool because the type of education that I think is best for my kids are not available in public school, not because schools are inherently evil. They, like any man-made innovation can be used for good or evil. Public schools serve a very practical, useful purpose-to take care of our children while we adults go about our work." Monica Truong

"If unschooling was a religion, it would be Tao.

"Trust Your Children. Nothing could be more simple, or more difficult because to trust children we must first learn to trust ourselves, and most of us were taught as children that we could not be trusted." John Holt

"We worry about what our children will become tomorrow. We forget that they are someone today." Stacy Tauscher

Contact Monica or Chinook Free Learners

Chinook Free Learners website

Chinook Free Learners Facebook

Resources

Sandra Dodd

Joyce Fetteroll

Pam Sarooshian

Pam Laricchia

Exploring Unschooling

Mortensen Math

Alliance For Self Directed Education

Thrive Calgary

Books

Deschooling Society

A Child Called It

Free To Learn

Everywhere All The Time: A New Deschooling Reader

Dumbing Us Down: The Hidden Curriculum of Compulsory Schooling

Free At Last: The Sudbury Valley School

Punished By Rewards

If you want to learn more about Democratic Education, check out my episode on Sudbury Valley School with Daniel Greenberg

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.


Robyn Robertson hosts Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids, a conversation that goes far beyond curriculum choices and into the heart of what it means to learn and grow together as a family. This isn't about presenting a perfect blueprint; instead, each episode feels like an honest chat with a friend who gets it, exploring the nuanced realities of choosing an educational path outside the conventional system. You'll hear from a diverse range of voices-experienced homeschoolers, unschooling advocates, educational researchers, and parents just figuring it out-all sharing their stories, challenges, and triumphs. The discussions naturally weave through parenting philosophies, cultural perspectives on childhood, and practical advice for nurturing a rich, engaging home life. Tuning into this podcast means finding a supportive community and thoughtful reflections on creating a family culture that prioritizes connection, curiosity, and joy. It’s for anyone curious about alternative education or simply seeking inspiration for a more intentional and fulfilling life with their kids.
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