S7E149: Building Joy~The Power of Play & Partnership with Shannon Loucks

S7E149: Building Joy~The Power of Play & Partnership with Shannon Loucks

Author: Robyn Robertson January 9, 2023 Duration: 1:00:29

Building Joy~The Power of Play & Partnership 

Shannon Loucks considers herself a fierce defender of childhoods.

Ever since her first job, she has sought out opportunities to be in the presence of children as they explore the world around them. From babysitter, to camp counselor, to a Degree in Education, to finally landing as a full time witness of fun to two boys who have become her greatest teachers.

Each of these opportunities led Shannon to believe in the power of play and partnership as a way to bring about more joy with a by-product of love into the lives of those who hold the biggest spaces in our hearts. Shannon joined me on this episode to talk about raising self directed people (she's a mom to grown unschoolers), play and partnership in parenting and the ways that we can build joy into childhood. 

In This Episode

Fear and worry seem to be our constant companions as parents. Especially for those of us homeschoolers that feel that also carry the extra responsobility of educating our children without school. But before she came on my show, I had recently read Shannon's book, Love More~ 50+ way to build joy into childhood. It's a beautiful yet simple read that shows how it doesn't have to be fear and worry but love, fun and joyful by the simple everyday things we can do with our kids. 

So in this episode, I wanted to find out more from Shannon about what this looked like in her family's life and how they were able to stay connected through the years. 

We talked about:

  • Why homeschooling or unschooling does not guarantee you'll get the perfect relationship with your child
  • How To Stay Connected To Our Kids
  • What it means to partner instead of have "power over"
  • The fear of unschooling- permissive parenting and the difference between permissive parenting vs present parenting
  • Reflections from her kids as young adults that grew up in a self directed learning home~ what would the change, keep and their transitions to college
  • Their Family Mission Statement and how they build it
  • Her book, Love More~ 50 + Ways To Build Joy Into Childhood

Resources

Shannon's website~ https://breakingdaylight.org/

Shannon's Book Love More~ 50 + Ways To Build Joy Into Childhood

Life Is Good Unschooling Conference

Sir Ken Robinson Ted Talk~ Do Schools Kill Creativity? 

If you would like to hear from parents with grown unschoolers, listen to my interview with Pam Laricchia ~ Exploring Unschooling

Check out our Third How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler Summit, March 24th 2023~ Purpose, Persist & Play

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Robyn Robertson hosts Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids, a conversation that goes far beyond curriculum choices and into the heart of what it means to learn and grow together as a family. This isn't about presenting a perfect blueprint; instead, each episode feels like an honest chat with a friend who gets it, exploring the nuanced realities of choosing an educational path outside the conventional system. You'll hear from a diverse range of voices-experienced homeschoolers, unschooling advocates, educational researchers, and parents just figuring it out-all sharing their stories, challenges, and triumphs. The discussions naturally weave through parenting philosophies, cultural perspectives on childhood, and practical advice for nurturing a rich, engaging home life. Tuning into this podcast means finding a supportive community and thoughtful reflections on creating a family culture that prioritizes connection, curiosity, and joy. It’s for anyone curious about alternative education or simply seeking inspiration for a more intentional and fulfilling life with their kids.
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