S7E155: Free To Learn and PLAY with Dr. Peter Gray

S7E155: Free To Learn and PLAY with Dr. Peter Gray

Author: Robyn Robertson March 21, 2023 Duration: 1:05:50

Free To Learn and PLAY with Dr. Peter Gray

Peter Gray is an American psychologist, author and research professor. He has conducted and published research in neuroendocrinology, developmental psychology, anthropology, and education.

His research focuses on the role of play in human evolution and how children educate themselves, through play and exploration, when they are free to do so. He has expanded on these ideas in his book, Free to Learn: Why Unleashing the Instinct to Play Will Make Our Children Happier, More Self-Reliant, and Better Students for Life (Basic Books).

He has been a regular contributor to Psychology Today magazine and is a founding member and president of the nonprofit Alliance for Self-Directed Education (ASDE) and a founding board director of the nonprofit Let Grow. 

He earned his undergraduate degree at Columbia College and Ph.D. in biological sciences at the Rockefeller University many years ago. His own current play includes kayaking, long-distance bicycling, backwoods skiing, and vegetable gardening. 

In This Episode: The Importance Of Free Play​

This episode is a re-release of an earlier episode with Peter Gray. (episode 47) 

It is such a wonderful and important discussion that I want to make sure it stays accessible. 

In this episode we talk about: 

  • The importance of FREE PLAY
  • Self Directed Learning and the key parts of the self directed learning environment
  • The lack of free play in our world today and what the absence of it has led to
  • Parents Fears around self directed education

Resources

Research studies:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/experts/peter-gray-phd

Observational study Jay Feldman

https://eric.ed.gov/?id=ED453128

Study of Grown Unschoolers

https://www.psychologytoday.com/sites/default/files/Published%20Grown%20Unschoolers%20I.pdf

https://www.psychologytoday.com/sites/default/files/Published%20Grown%20Unschooles%20II.pdf

Brian Sutton Smith

Play Scholar

Play Theory

Democratic Schools

Sudbury Valley School

Peter Gray’s Book

Free To Learn: Why Unleashing The Instinct To Play Will Make Our Children Happier, More Self-Reliant, and Better Students For Life

Alliance For Self Directed Education

Let Grow Project

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