Ep. 546 Porn, Dating, and What Women Really Think (with Dr. Kayte)

Ep. 546 Porn, Dating, and What Women Really Think (with Dr. Kayte)

Author: Cloud10 September 16, 2025 Duration: 1:05:13
This episode is anything but a lecture. In fact, we kick things off with a totally candid 10-minute conversation between me, Kristen, and our guest Dr. Kayte about our own porn patterns - genres, likes, dislikes - proving that yes, we ALL watch porn. From there, Dr. Kayte breaks down what’s actually healthy versus harmful when it comes to porn, plus what’s real and what’s pure camera trickery that should never, ever be tried in real life. We also dive into Dr. Kayte’s own dating life as a woman in her mid-30s, where she shares surprising insecurities that so many women in that stage of life can relate to. Even if you’re a woman listening, you’re going to love this one. In this episode, we also overanalyze and unpack: The best questions to ask on dates to instantly put your date at ease What to avoid saying to women when you’re on a date How excessive porn can absolutely kill your real-life sex life The traits women secretly find attractive (that will probably surprise you) ...and so much more. >>>Join Kristen along with the founder of Limitless Brave for an in-person workshop in LA September 27th and 28th. >>>SEATS ARE LIMITED! Get them here: ⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day1⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day2⁠⁠ >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty ⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wondered what women actually think about dating, attraction, and communication? How To GET THE GIRL-An Ask Women Podcast cuts through the noise and gets straight to honest conversations. Hosted by Marni Kinrys, who acts as your personal wing girl, alongside banter coach Kristen Carney, this weekly series dismantles the mysteries of modern connection. Instead of relying on tired pick-up lines or manipulative games, the hosts facilitate genuine dialogue. You’ll hear directly from a diverse range of voices-everyday women, celebrities, relationship therapists, and fiercely opinionated individuals-all sharing unfiltered perspectives on what truly builds confidence and fosters meaningful relationships. This isn't about secret tricks; it's about understanding. Each episode from Cloud10 delves into the real questions men have but might be hesitant to ask, covering everything from first-date jitters to deepening intimacy, all framed within the health and sexuality of human interaction. Tune in for a refreshingly straightforward take that replaces guesswork with clarity, making this podcast a unique resource for anyone looking to improve their romantic life through better insight and authentic communication.
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