Ep. 557 How to Spark Attraction in the First 30 Seconds

Ep. 557 How to Spark Attraction in the First 30 Seconds

Author: Cloud10 December 16, 2025 Duration: 48:09
Approaching women in public is rarer than ever, which means if you can do it well, you instantly stand out. In this episode, Marni and Kristen break down the real “first impression” stuff that actually matters: your face, your eyes, your smile, your energy, and your tonality. You’ll learn how to fix resting “don’t talk to me” face, how to use subtle push-pull with expressions, and a simple way to practice on camera so women feel safe, curious, and open around you. Then dating coach Patrick James joins to share how to create attraction fast without overthinking your lines. Why being direct works better than “interview questions,” how to start conversations that feel natural, and the secret move that makes you stand out in under a minute: playful rapport breaks. >>> Want Patrick’s exact playbook? Grab his book 107 Proven Ways to Get the Girl here: https://www.howtogetthegirlnow.com/ >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wondered what women actually think about dating, attraction, and communication? How To GET THE GIRL-An Ask Women Podcast cuts through the noise and gets straight to honest conversations. Hosted by Marni Kinrys, who acts as your personal wing girl, alongside banter coach Kristen Carney, this weekly series dismantles the mysteries of modern connection. Instead of relying on tired pick-up lines or manipulative games, the hosts facilitate genuine dialogue. You’ll hear directly from a diverse range of voices-everyday women, celebrities, relationship therapists, and fiercely opinionated individuals-all sharing unfiltered perspectives on what truly builds confidence and fosters meaningful relationships. This isn't about secret tricks; it's about understanding. Each episode from Cloud10 delves into the real questions men have but might be hesitant to ask, covering everything from first-date jitters to deepening intimacy, all framed within the health and sexuality of human interaction. Tune in for a refreshingly straightforward take that replaces guesswork with clarity, making this podcast a unique resource for anyone looking to improve their romantic life through better insight and authentic communication.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 100

How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast
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Ep. 551 Why Happiness = Hotness (w/ Happiness Coach Robert Mack) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 46:06
We’re throwing it back to one of our most powerful Ask Women episodes — where we explore why being happy isn’t just good for your soul, it’s magnetic. Studies show that the happier you are, the more attractive you become…
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Duration: 1:02:28
We’re throwing it back to the Ask Women days! Comedian Nick Guerra joins Marni and Kristen for a classic “Over Analyze This” episode where we dive into listener letters and answer your biggest dating questions. From how…
Ep. 549 Show Confidence Around Women You LIKE [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 44:19
On this week’s How to Get the Girl, we’re joined by Adam Woolard — husband to Bachelorette star Hannah Brown, VP of Business Development at Joi+Blokes, and a guy who knows firsthand what it’s like to feel intimidated by…
Ep. 548 How to Date When You’re New in Town [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 59:20
Moving to a new city can feel like hitting the reset button—new streets to explore, new friends to make, and a whole new dating scene to figure out. In this throwback episode (originally aired 6.15.16, Ep. 67), Marni and…
Why In-Person Coaching Changes Everything - Bonus Episode! [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 56:43
In this bonus episode of How to Get the Girl, Kristen sits down with Dave Stultz from Limitless Brave to talk about something that can completely shift your dating life: the power of working with a coach in person. We br…
Ep. 546 Porn, Dating, and What Women Really Think (with Dr. Kayte) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:05:13
This episode is anything but a lecture. In fact, we kick things off with a totally candid 10-minute conversation between me, Kristen, and our guest Dr. Kayte about our own porn patterns - genres, likes, dislikes - provin…
Ep. 545 Freshly Divorced and Dating Like a Pro [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 54:55
Dating at 49 isn’t about playing games — it’s about knowing who you are, what you want, and not being afraid to say it out loud. On this episode of How to Get the Girl, we sit down with Rachel Birch, host of the award-wi…
Ep. 544 The Smart Penis Ring & The Future of Men’s Sexual Health [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 51:39
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Ep. 543 Building Connection and Chemistry Through Communication [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 58:46
Communication is the foundation of every great relationship, but for so many people, it’s also the biggest struggle. In this episode, we’re joined by Suzanne Tabachnick, founder of Social Foundations, a supportive commun…