Living at Odds | 4. A Quiet Fight for LGBTQ Rights

Living at Odds | 4. A Quiet Fight for LGBTQ Rights

Author: Peach Fish Projects April 29, 2025 Duration: 50:46

Our series Living at Odds concludes with a special episode of Slate's ⁠Death, Sex & Money⁠. Host Anna Sale returns to her native West Virginia to talk with the state's only full-time lobbyist for LGBTQ rights. Andrew Schneider of ⁠Fairness West Virginia⁠ has spent years cultivating working relationships with conservative allies in state and local government. Aided by those relationships, Andrew helped pass 20 local anti-discrimination ordinances across the conservative-leaning state. Now, those policy victories—and Andrew's alliances—are facing dire challenges in an increasingly hostile political landscape.

Plus: How To!'s Courtney Martin looks back at ⁠Living at Odds⁠, a series about what holds us together when so much threatens to break us apart.

If you enjoyed this series, check out: ⁠How To Get Things Done in a Divided Nation with Samantha Power⁠ or ⁠How To Harness Your Citizen Superpowers⁠.

Do you have a problem that needs solving? Send us a note at ⁠howto@slate.com⁠ or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Subscribe for free on ⁠Apple⁠, ⁠Spotify⁠, or wherever you listen.

This episode was produced by Anna Sale, with the Death, Sex & Money team: Zoe Azulay, Cameron Drews, Andrew Dunn, and Daisy Rosario. This series was produced by Maura Currie and Rosie Belson. How To's technical director is Merritt Jacob and our supervising producer is Joel Meyer.

Special thanks to The Hearthland Foundation, which provided funding for Living at Odds.


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