Quick Fix: The Let Them Theory

Quick Fix: The Let Them Theory

Author: Peach Fish Projects July 15, 2025 Duration: 10:58

In this Quick Fix bonus episode, our conversation about how to get revenge continues. Writer and comedian Matthew Dicks weighs in on the "let them" mindset popularized by podcaster Mel Robbins. "I don't understand why we would let terrible people continue to be terrible," he says. And, Matt explains the tiny moment of social-media comeuppance he delivered to Donald Trump.

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Mel Robbins explains the idea that became her bestselling book The Let Them Theory.

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How To!'s Quick Fix is produced by Rosemary Belson, with Kevin Bendis. Our technical director is Merritt Jacob and our supervising producer is Joel Meyer. Special thanks to Sophie Summergrad.

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