Empathy: 5 Steps to Develop DEEP EMPATHY and Fuel Leadership, Trust, and Innovation with Legend Rob Volpe

Empathy: 5 Steps to Develop DEEP EMPATHY and Fuel Leadership, Trust, and Innovation with Legend Rob Volpe

Author: Howie Chan, Influence Strategist @ The Behavioring Company August 26, 2025 Duration: 1:10:39
How Can I help you? Want prospects to become customers and passers-by to become fans? Sign up for Behavior Blueprint, my FREE 7-day email course. In this episode of the Legend Effect Podcast, host Howie Chan interviews Rob Volpe, the empathy activist. He is the Founder and Chairman of Ignite 360, an award-winning, best-selling author, and he empowers people to build empathy and be better at the work they do and the people they are. They delve deep into empathy, what it is and isn't, why it's so critical in our personal and work life, and how to develop it so it too can be your superpower. The discussion emphasizes that empathy is not just a "nice to have," in fact, its absence is actually the reason companies lose millions and millions of dollars every year. Rob walks us through the 5 Steps to Empathy that can help you dissolve any conflict and come out on the other side more connected, more powerful, and more effective. He also shares a simple but profound technique called the Curious Breath, which is a quick reset that takes you from reactive to thoughtful, from spiraling to strategic. Episode Breakdown: 03:33 A miracle of life, Judy Garland, and a lot of empathy 08:08 Listen to your intuition to connect with others 10:32 The development of empathy and a real-life example 15:05 Why empathy is so critical in all facets of life 18:31 Fusing the head and the heart to connect and build empathy  21:45 The current empathy crisis in a polarized, angry society 24:31 Empaths: when empathy can quickly become too much 28:18 Go from reacting to responding with a curious breath 32:52 The 5 Steps to Empathy 35:06 How to dismantle judgment so it stops getting in your way 43:56 Choosing to ask questions differently and ditching "Why?" 48:59 What active listening looks like and some exercises to help 55:40 Play the ice cream game and integrate different points of view 1:02:45 Put yourself in the other person's shoes to imagine solutions  1:04:07 How people rallied around Rob after a recent injury 1:07:01 What to do today to start your empathy journey 1:07:42 A letter to Rob Volpe’s younger self From Our Guest: Website LinkedIn TikTok Instagram Get the book, Tell Me More About That. You can find more content about Rob's cats – Domino, Barnabas, and Solitaire – here. Check out the Empathy Circle. Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Howie Chan hosts Influence Anyone, a conversation that digs into the practical mechanics of persuasion and personal change. Rather than abstract theory, this podcast focuses on applied influence psychology, translating research and real-world experience into actionable strategies. Episodes feature dialogues with leading experts and practitioners, dissecting the subtle psychological forces that shape both internal motivation and external agreement. You’ll hear discussions on mastering your own mindset and habits alongside concrete methods for branding, storytelling, and negotiation. The aim is to move from insight to implementation, turning behavioral science into reliable playbooks for leadership and persuasion. Covering intersections of science, business, marketing, and social dynamics, the podcast provides a nuanced look at how influence operates in various arenas of life. Listeners gain a deeper understanding of the principles that drive decision-making, equipping them to navigate professional challenges and personal goals with greater clarity. The tone is exploratory and detailed, prioritizing depth over quick fixes. By examining the hidden architecture of influence, Howie Chan creates a resource for anyone looking to understand the why behind effective action and communication. This is a place where academic findings meet street-level practice, all dedicated to creating more meaningful and effective outcomes.
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