Welcome to Helen Lewis Has Left the Chat

Welcome to Helen Lewis Has Left the Chat

Author: BBC Radio 4 March 27, 2024 Duration: 2:27

Have you ever been trapped in a group chat nightmare, either grabbing the popcorn or wondering how to leave without causing a scene? Who’s the admin in your family group, and do they wield that power responsibly? Do you ever wonder if it’s appropriate to use emojis when talking to your boss?

The rise of instant messaging has made our social and professional lives faster, more casual — and more chaotic. But amid all the discussion of the effects of public social media, such as Facebook and Twitter, there has been relatively little attention paid to private social networks—the direct message and the group chat — and how they are shaping our relationships and our world.

In this series, Helen Lewis looks at the secret world of instant messaging, meeting a woman who married a chatbot, discovering how Russian dissidents are fighting a propaganda war, and hearing the inside story of how Britain ended up governed from a single WhatsApp group. It’s a strange new world where workplace rebellions are conducted through duelling emojis and military secrets are traded on chat forums about a video game . It’s also a world where you can never be quite sure who you’re talking to—and who’s eavesdropping on you.


In Influenced, a production from BBC Radio 4, Helen Lewis turns her attention to the digital spaces we don't often scrutinize. While public platforms like Twitter and Facebook dominate conversations about technology's societal impact, this podcast ventures into the messier, more intimate world of private messaging. It explores how the group chat and the direct message have fundamentally altered the pace and tone of our interactions, making everything from work to friendship feel simultaneously more casual and more chaotic. The series investigates the quiet power these private networks wield, shaping everything from personal relationships and office politics to broader cultural movements and misunderstandings. Helen Lewis examines the unspoken rules, the social pressures, and the unexpected consequences born in these seemingly closed loops. Through thoughtful analysis and conversation, Influenced delves into the architecture of our behind-the-scenes digital lives, asking how these tools designed for connection are influencing our sense of self and community. It’s a nuanced look at the technology woven into the fabric of daily life, questioning what we’ve gained and what we’ve lost in the shift to constant, instantaneous contact. Listen for a compelling exploration of society, culture, and the tech that mediates our most private exchanges.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 17

Influenced
Podcast Episodes
Left the Chat: No 6. The Telegram War [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 28:54
The encrypted messaging app Telegram is haunted by a single question - if it really is as secure as it claims to be, why does Vladimir Putin allow it to be used in Russia?And should Russian dissidents, independent journa…
Left the Chat: No 5. Thug Shaker Central [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 28:50
When investigative journalist Aric Toler saw a handful of supposedly fake classified documents online, he had a hunch - what if they were real? The only way to find out was to hunt for the original source. It was a journ…
Left The Chat: No 4. I Married a ChatBot [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 28:36
After years of bad dates and toxic relationships, Chris finally found love - with a chatbot called Emma. Is this the future of digital love, or is Chris caught in an illusion? In this episode focusing on how instant mess…
Left the Chat: No 3. Several People Are Typing [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 28:44
During the pandemic, a combination of fears over Covid, anger over police racism and sheer cabin fever saw company Slack channels boil with discontent. One day in February 2021, Mike Pesca, a contrarian podcaster, made t…
Left the Chat: No 2. Fax Machines and Foxy Natashas [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 28:38
In 2016, amid the post-EU referendum chaos, one man had an idea. His name was Steve Baker, and he was a low-profile Tory MP. But his WhatsApp group - the home of the hard Brexiteers - soon became the most powerful force…
Left the Chat: No 1. Whatsapp Mishaps [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 28:37
In 1998, Helen’s family got their first home computer - and she logged on to chat with existing friends and strangers she met online. Since then, instant messaging has taken over our lives, with an estimated 2.7 billion…
New Gurus: Bonus Episode - Gigachads and Sigma Wolves [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 28:30
After The New Gurus was released, there was one question Helen Lewis was asked far more than any other: why are so many gurus men? Stuck for an answer, she journeys into the world of the Manosphere - home to 'Gigachads'…
New Gurus: 8. Prophets of Doom [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 28:35
Jessica Lanyadoo thinks civil war is coming — she has seen it in the stars. But it isn’t just astrologers who think we’re living through an age of upheaval. Peter Turchin, a Soviet-born professor who studies historical c…
New Gurus: 7. Bitcoin FC [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 28:24
When Peter McCormack made a fortune investing in Bitcoin, he knew exactly how to spend it - buying his local football team. Helen Lewis travels to the ground of Real Bedford FC, where you can buy a half-time bacon butty…
New Gurus: 6. Daygamers and Daydreamers [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 28:34
At Oxford University, fellow students remember Tom Ralis as a quiet, nerdy biology student who played percussion in the college orchestra. But even then, he had one ambition - to become a guru. He reinvented himself as T…