The 4 Sneaky Ways You're Destroying Your Relationships Without Realizing It

The 4 Sneaky Ways You're Destroying Your Relationships Without Realizing It

Author: Jojo Cottle January 21, 2026 Duration: 19:54
This week Jojo gets MESy with the 4 relationship ruiners you don't see coming. Learn how these patterns sabotage your connections and how to break the cycles through radical ownership and inner work. Stop destroying relationships and start building them. Send me a MESsage :) Thank you for listening! Don't forget to follow along on social media @_insideout.podcast, rate and review. And Join the MESy Mailing List for exclusive content, insights on what is coming up and more!

Jojo Cottle hosts inside OUT: Navigating the Mental, Emotional & Spiritual with Jojo, a space where personal growth is explored from the inside out. This podcast operates from the belief that lasting change happens when we address our mental patterns, emotional landscapes, and spiritual connection in tandem. Each conversation is designed to feel like a practical guide, moving beyond abstract ideas to offer grounded tools and actionable insights you can use in daily life. Whether discussing a mindset shift that reframes challenges or exploring how physical fitness intertwines with emotional resilience, Jojo approaches topics with a relatable and integrative perspective. The discussions naturally weave through categories like self-improvement, health, and spirituality, reflecting a holistic view of well-being. You'll hear explorations on aligning actions with core values, managing the inner critic, and cultivating a deeper sense of purpose. The aim is to provide content that feels both supportive and stimulating, encouraging you to examine your own journey through the lens of M.E.S.-Mental, Emotional, and Spiritual growth. For anyone feeling the pull to live more intentionally and authentically, this podcast serves as a thoughtful companion on that path, emphasizing that transformation is a nuanced and ongoing process. Tune in for episodes that blend reflective questions with tangible strategies for creating a life that feels genuinely yours.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 50

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Podcast Episodes
I Want To Hear From You, Yes YOU: A Personal Check In [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 5:31
Jojo shares her personal journey through mental, emotional, and spiritual growth, inviting listeners to engage and shape future content based on their interests. Send me a MESsage :) Thank you for listening! Don't forget…
The Intimacy Gap: What Men & Women Get Wrong About Love with Yats [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:08:43
In this episode, Jojo sits down with relationship and inner child therapist Yats to explore the deep roots of relationship dynamics, inner child healing, and the balance of masculinity and femininity. They discuss how ch…
Perfectionism, Self-Betrayal & The MESsy Middle w/ Amanda Baker [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 46:06
What if your perfectionism isn't a personality trait, it's a survival strategy that's quietly burning you out? Therapist, yoga psychology teacher, and poet Amanda Baker joins Jojo to unravel why we strive to be "amazing,…
The Episode I Almost Deleted: A Case Against Perfectionism [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 16:19
This week Jojo does something a little different. No studio, no polish, no edits. Just a mic, a patio overlooking the water, wind in the background, and yes, even a bee. Because this episode is about the very thing that…
Why Are We Always Late? The Psychology of Not Showing Up [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 14:57
We have all been on both sides of it. Waiting on someone who never showed. Or being the one who was late... again. This week Jojo scraps her original fired up take and asks a much more interesting question: why do we act…