Thailand. Why we keep Coming Back

Thailand. Why we keep Coming Back

Author: Liz Deacle and Brian Deacle June 5, 2026 Duration: 1:19:05

Brian and Liz are back in Chiang Mai, Thailand, for the fourth time.

Why do they keep coming back? Because it seals their empty gaps. Fills their tired tanks.

Because they feel like emotionally intelligent adults. A grown-up husband and wife couple instead of silly old mum and dad who are old and decrepit and know nothing but still have to pay for everything anyway.

If ever you are in need of some you time, Thailand is the place.

Here's why.

With all our love and gratitude from a stitched up, shaved off, pummelled, therapy loving, still bickering

Liz and Brian xx

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You might think from the title It's a Drama Podcast that you're in for some heavy theatrics, but it's actually the opposite. Hosted by world traveller and best-selling comedy author Liz Deacle alongside her husband Brian, this is a space for the gloriously unfiltered and often hilarious conversations that happen between two people sharing a life and a suitcase. Each episode feels like pulling up a chair at their kitchen table, where the topics roam freely from travel mishaps and cultural observations to the everyday dramas of family, food, and navigating the second half of life with a sense of humor. Liz and Brian’s candid dynamic is the heart of the podcast, offering a blend of laughter and genuine honesty that makes the personal feel universal. You’ll find yourself in the middle of stories that are both frank and funny, often accompanied by the clink of a wine glass and the admission that adulthood isn't always a dignified affair. It’s less about destination and more about the messy, joyful, and relatable journey, making this a uniquely comforting listen for anyone who appreciates real conversation served with a generous side of comedy.
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