This is What Happens When You Give Yourself Time

This is What Happens When You Give Yourself Time

Author: Liz Deacle and Brian Deacle August 11, 2025 Duration: 1:00:21

What would you do with a million dollars?
Brian would buy a car. Liz would build a writing retreat. Welcome to marriage.

In this episode, Brian and I chat about money, marriage tiffs, and why giving yourself time — real, uninterrupted, guilt-free time — can change everything.

We talk about our last precious days in Greece (and why we never want this spell to end), the joy of being unapologetically self-indulgent, supporting adult kids while still carving out a life of your own, and what "being time-rich" really means.

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Kia kaha,

Liz and Brian x

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You might think from the title It's a Drama Podcast that you're in for some heavy theatrics, but it's actually the opposite. Hosted by world traveller and best-selling comedy author Liz Deacle alongside her husband Brian, this is a space for the gloriously unfiltered and often hilarious conversations that happen between two people sharing a life and a suitcase. Each episode feels like pulling up a chair at their kitchen table, where the topics roam freely from travel mishaps and cultural observations to the everyday dramas of family, food, and navigating the second half of life with a sense of humor. Liz and Brian’s candid dynamic is the heart of the podcast, offering a blend of laughter and genuine honesty that makes the personal feel universal. You’ll find yourself in the middle of stories that are both frank and funny, often accompanied by the clink of a wine glass and the admission that adulthood isn't always a dignified affair. It’s less about destination and more about the messy, joyful, and relatable journey, making this a uniquely comforting listen for anyone who appreciates real conversation served with a generous side of comedy.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 100

It's a Drama Podcast
Podcast Episodes
Escaping to Wellington. But at what cost? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 43:31
Brian and Liz are knackered. Whacked. They need a weekend away. Escape for a few days. The trouble is, accommodation in New Zealand is not cheap...in fact, it's costly. And there's no way they can sleep on their daughter…
Gobsmacked [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 55:43
Never. Not in my wildest dreams did I think that I would EVER be sharing what I'm about to share with you in this week's podcast. Join us this week as we talk about achievements, disappointments, book revenue, and sittin…
It's HERE!! [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 53:15
For two years, six months and six looonng days, I have waited to share the news I have for you on this podcast. And today, my friend, I am happy and proud to announce that my FIRST-EVER BOOK: The Travel Bog Diaries is av…
Pack ur bags [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 54:51
Five years ago, Brian and I left everything behind (including a full-time job with a regular wage) to take our family (two teenage kids), travelling around the world for a year. We visited almost thirty countries, includ…
Book cover FEAR!  Behind the scenes [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 41:34
After almost two and a half years, I am almost ready to publish my first book. That book is called The Travel Bog Diaries. It is made up of hilarious short stories of what it was REALLY like to travel the world with two…
Hot, sweaty MESS [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 59:40
Fess up. Hot, sweaty MESS. Time to confess. When does it happen? When do you turn into a dithering, hot, sweaty, prickly fuss-bag who shakes and quivers because she has misplaced her sunglasses? Even though it's pitch bl…
Tender or Torturous? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 57:05
This week, Liz confesses a few massage secrets, Brian blows the cover on a bloke named Dave (who doesn't live in Gisborne) and the word on all lips this week is open-wide and twisted... PLUS! Liz reads another snippet fr…
Replacing Brian [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 50:49
Last week it happened. I finally met someone who knows more than Bri, is more patient than Bri, is quicker than Bri...and to make things even weirder, they both have an 'i" in their name... Sit back, and enjoy the show.…
Double Edged Sword [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 46:23
Elon's stars, tinternet, and putting yourself out ther for all the world to see...That's what Liz and Bri want to chat with you about today! So grab yourself a cuppa or a glass of wine and settle down! Plus! Liz reads an…

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