When you just don't have it all together

When you just don't have it all together

Author: Liz Deacle and Brian Deacle October 16, 2025 Duration: 1:03:26

Has anyone REALLY got their life together? Got it all sorted? We've been married for twenty-five years, and I know we haven't. 

This week, husband and wife Brian and Liz feel unsettled. As they walk the canals of Bath, they get real and honest about feeling uncertain about the future and share the times they've felt completely lost on their year-long nomadic family journey.

If you've ever felt like everyone else has their life together and you don't then you will love this epiosde.

Get ready to hear four vulnerable stories: the panic of being asked to attend a local social gathering (where they purposely lied and tied themselves in knots), the worry that ruins a beautiful trip, the fear of admitting "I don't know" to their own kids, and the small rituals they cling to when life feels uncertain.

Listen to this episode if you want to know:

  • How to handle questions from strangers about your life when you haven't got a clue what you're even doing

  • How to talk to your adult kids about financial struggles (AKA: NO. We can't afford it)

  • Morning routine for when you feel anxious 

  • Us having abuse hurled at us by some random strangers on the Tow Path (see if you spot it...)

 

Thank you, as always, for being here with us. You are what makes this podcast so special.

My heart beats with yours.

Kia Kaha.

Liz and Brian x

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You might think from the title It's a Drama Podcast that you're in for some heavy theatrics, but it's actually the opposite. Hosted by world traveller and best-selling comedy author Liz Deacle alongside her husband Brian, this is a space for the gloriously unfiltered and often hilarious conversations that happen between two people sharing a life and a suitcase. Each episode feels like pulling up a chair at their kitchen table, where the topics roam freely from travel mishaps and cultural observations to the everyday dramas of family, food, and navigating the second half of life with a sense of humor. Liz and Brian’s candid dynamic is the heart of the podcast, offering a blend of laughter and genuine honesty that makes the personal feel universal. You’ll find yourself in the middle of stories that are both frank and funny, often accompanied by the clink of a wine glass and the admission that adulthood isn't always a dignified affair. It’s less about destination and more about the messy, joyful, and relatable journey, making this a uniquely comforting listen for anyone who appreciates real conversation served with a generous side of comedy.
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