Can he be friends with people who don’t like him? (John, Age 8)

Can he be friends with people who don’t like him? (John, Age 8)

Author: Eileen Kennedy-Moore, PhD, author, psychologist, focusing on children's feelings, children's friendships, parenting, mental health. January 31, 2026 Duration: 5:20

Ep. 133 - Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Say no to one-way friendships | Friendship advice for kids

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*** DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:

- Have you ever done something that made another kid not like you? What happened? How did you handle that?

- Why do you think kids sometimes want to be friends with kids who don’t like them?

- How could trying to be friends with people who don’t like you end up hurting you?

- We can’t be friends with everyone, but we do need to try to be kind to everyone. What do you think that means you should do (or not do) when you don’t like someone?

- Have you ever met a kid who just didn’t appeal to you? What led to that dislike? Looking back, do you think you were fair, or are there ways you would have liked to handle things differently?

*** You might also like these podcast episodes:

Ep. 38 - Wondering how to be popular (Richard, Age 11)

https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/richard-age-11-wondering-how-to-be-popular

Ep. 21 - Popularity is not the same as friendship (Eugene, Age 13)

https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/kids-ask-dr-friendtastic-ep-21-eugene

Ep. 20 - Why might a friend not tell you the truth? (Anna, Age 9)

https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/kids-ask-dr-friendtastic-ep-20-anna



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In Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Friendship Advice for Kids (K-8), real children from kindergarten through eighth grade send in their questions about the tricky, wonderful, and sometimes confusing world of friendships. Each week, Dr. Eileen Kennedy-Moore-a clinical psychologist and author known as Dr. Friendtastic-responds with a thoughtful, practical answer designed just for young listeners. The conversations in this podcast get straight to the heart of what kids experience: navigating arguments, feeling left out, trying to make a new friend, or figuring out how to be a good one themselves. Eileen Kennedy-Moore draws on her deep expertise in children's feelings and social development to offer actionable advice that respects a child's perspective. The format is brief and engaging, with each episode lasting about five minutes, making it an easy listen for a car ride or quiet moment. This isn't about lectures; it's about giving kids the tools and confidence to handle social situations with kindness and resilience. Parents and educators often find the discussions helpful, too, as the podcast naturally opens doors for deeper conversations about emotions and relationships. By focusing on real questions from real kids, the podcast creates a genuine connection, assuring young listeners that their friendship worries are normal and solvable. Tune in weekly to hear compassionate guidance that turns everyday social puzzles into opportunities for growth and connection.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Friendship Advice for Kids (K-8)
Podcast Episodes
How to make friends with a new classmate (Adeline, Age 7) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 6:37
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Celebrating Episode 100!!! [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 11:38
Ep. 100 - Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Hear what kids have learned from 100 episodes of friendship advice for kidsFREE quiz: Is Your Child a Good Friend? https://eileenkennedymoore.ck.page/e37dcc098fWould YOUR KID like to…
Best friend makes a big mistake! (Rosetta, Age 5) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 5:19
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How to join a group when not everyone wants you in (Jessica, Age 9) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 6:59
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How and why to understand a friend’s feelings (Zoya, Age 7) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 5:00
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Dealing with a Bossy Friend (Grace, Age 9) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 5:45
Ep. 96 - Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Moving past a Yes-No argumentGrace's friend sometimes bosses her around! What can she do?FREE quiz: Is Your Child a Good Friend? https://eileenkennedymoore.ck.page/e37dcc098fWould YOUR…
Handling embarrassing moments (Sara, Age 7) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 5:18
Ep. 95 - Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: 3 types of embarrassmentSara wishes she could never feel embarrassed!FREE quiz: Is Your Child a Good Friend? https://eileenkennedymoore.ck.page/e37dcc098fWould YOUR KID like to be feat…
Before you confront a friend | Friendship advice for kids [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 6:01
Ep. 94 - Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Two questions to ask yourself before discussing a problem with a friend.FREE quiz: Is Your Child a Good Friend? https://eileenkennedymoore.ck.page/e37dcc098fWould YOUR KID like to be f…
Not invited to a party! (Alice, Age 6) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 6:04
Ep. 94 - Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: What we can control and what we can’tAlice wonders what to do when her good friend doesn't invite her to a party.FREE quiz: Is Your Child a Good Friend? https://eileenkennedymoore.ck.p…
What to say when a friend is feeling down (Mason, Age 13) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 5:17
Ep. 92 - Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Supportive vs. unsupportive responses to a sad friend Mason wants to know what to say to a friend who is feeling down that won't make the friend feel worse! FREE quiz: Is Your Child a…