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Podcast Notes
Meg:
Relationships, they can be so complicated, but things as a kinetic believer aren't supposed to be. So I think that's why, like you just said, it's one of the most difficult aspects of living from the higher self because if you have anything really hanging on, it's probably a person, it's probably a relationship that can't transition with you, but the love and the connection makes you want to bring them along to such a deep level.
Steve:
Well, the word force is interesting because force, yes, so the kinetic believer is using the power and authority of force, but towards self. Force being the determining factor for creating your own expectations. For again, celebration and being championed, and edified, and loved unconditionally. But the pressure of the expectation is put on self, and then therefore on all others and all things to conform respectfully, to the force that's being self-inflicted.
And then the infliction of the force is an affliction toward all others. If it's not something that they wish to conform with.
Meg:
When you approach, when you have the opportunity to enter into a new relationship, what are your requirements? When you think about your standards, what you require to form a new relationship, or to assess one that has been hanging around, what goes through your mind? What are the requirements for you to connect with people in that way?
Steve:
Well, the first thing to do is to recognize, first of all, we are all energy. Your energy, energetics, there is an energy to your form. In fact, what we see is not what really is. And so I protect energy, and you think in terms of being a higher form of energy, vibrating on a high level of energetics, which is positive energy. And in that we are all energy, energetics of a vibrational frequency, we can either increase in intensity of that vibrational frequency, or we are depleted. And you can feel that.
When somebody is depleting the virtue of your energy because they're negative, and you feel weakened, and tired, and fatigued after spending time with them. So know that you're commuting energetically with, in other words, you're sharing the feelings, you're sharing emotionally with someone else when you befriend them, you spend time with them as a friend. It becomes imperative to myself and should all others that you choose wisely, people that are positive and encouraging, and celebrating, and championing, and edifying, you and themself. It first begins with the sense of self-love. If somebody is not unconditionally loving themself from this higher perspective, energetically, then it's impossible for them to do that for you as well. The person that shows up, "Hey, I've got to talk to you about all these problems," that's a negative ball of energy that's going to deplete the virtue of your energetics.
Meg:
Well, I feel like you just brought us across the finish line. And we got there because the idea of approaching this from the perspective and from the posture of energy, energetics, it cuts through all the nuance that we began by discussing. So yes, it is complicated, and yes, it is nuanced, if you're down there, in there, in the muck of it, micromanaging what he said, what she said, what they did. Did they return the phone call? All this mess, clear all that out with the concept you just gave us of energetics, approach it from that perspective, all your questions will be answered.
Steve:
It's only complicated when you are tempted to do the wrong thing. It's very easy to do the right thing.
Say this out loud.
I'm living dreams with enthusiasm.
The little things in life are my satisfaction.
I enjoy being surrounded by positive people.
I love being surrounded by others who champion and encourage and celebrate themself.
I am fearless.
As I live my life with courage.
I'm following after my best life. And it is right now.
I am not responsible for the world. I am responsible to me and for me and my choices.
I choose life and all that is good.
Therefore, all that is good belongs to me.
I am in love with me. Because I've chosen to be.
