120: PATRONS CHOICE! Thoughts During Sex

120: PATRONS CHOICE! Thoughts During Sex

Author: Kingdom Sexuality February 27, 2023 Duration: 40:28

The incredible Kingdom Sexuality patrons were the ones who chose this weeks episode, so a huge THANK YOU to them!!

Do you ever struggle with your thoughts during sex? Thinking about a past relationship experience, something you saw in porn, or even just your mind is wandering thinking about what's for dinner tomorrow?? This episode is for you!

Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about what we do when/if we struggle with wrong thoughts during sex or if our mind wanders during intimacy. They also share some tips and things you can do to get your mind back in the zone during sex! The team gets really practical here, sharing simple tips like: make eye contact, be aware of your senses, and how "mindfulness" could also be a big help! 

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Hosted by Alana and Kyle, Kingdom Sexuality is a frank and faith-centered conversation about intimacy within Christian marriage. This podcast operates from a core belief: that a vibrant, fulfilling sexual connection is a profound part of God's design for married couples, yet it's a topic often shrouded in silence or confusion within religious communities. Alana and Kyle approach this mission with empathy and honesty, creating a space where listeners can move beyond vague ideals into practical, wholesome realities. They explore why many enter marriage feeling unprepared or carrying unhelpful baggage about sex, and how couples at any stage can rediscover connection and joy. Episodes blend thoughtful discussion, personal "sex-timonies," and interviews with experts, all aimed at demystifying this essential part of the covenant relationship. The tone is both grounded and hopeful, acknowledging challenges while pointing toward a vision of sexual freedom that is deeply rooted in spiritual truth. For those seeking to align their intimate lives with their faith, this podcast offers a rare combination of biblical perspective and relatable conversation, tackling questions that are rarely addressed so openly in religious settings. Tune in for a journey that reframes sexuality not as a separate struggle, but as a integral, sacred part of a thriving marriage under God's kingdom.
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