131: Advice We Wish We'd Gotten During Engagement

131: Advice We Wish We'd Gotten During Engagement

Author: Kingdom Sexuality May 15, 2023 Duration: 31:31

Engagement is an exciting time, but it can also be stressful and confusing. Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about advice they DID receive during their own seasons of engagement and advice they WISH they had gotten while they were engaged. Some tips they shared were; when it comes to sex, take your time and learn each other's anatomy, find trusted mentors to help keep you accountable during dating and engagement, have conversations about "sexpectations" before AND after the wedding, get good premarital counseling, and be explicit with each other about your needs and wants. These tips can help make your engagement easier and more enjoyable. And remember, the wedding is just the beginning of your journey together!!

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Links from today's episode:

Nitty Gritty Wedding Night Run Down

Faithful Counseling


Hosted by Alana and Kyle, Kingdom Sexuality is a frank and faith-centered conversation about intimacy within Christian marriage. This podcast operates from a core belief: that a vibrant, fulfilling sexual connection is a profound part of God's design for married couples, yet it's a topic often shrouded in silence or confusion within religious communities. Alana and Kyle approach this mission with empathy and honesty, creating a space where listeners can move beyond vague ideals into practical, wholesome realities. They explore why many enter marriage feeling unprepared or carrying unhelpful baggage about sex, and how couples at any stage can rediscover connection and joy. Episodes blend thoughtful discussion, personal "sex-timonies," and interviews with experts, all aimed at demystifying this essential part of the covenant relationship. The tone is both grounded and hopeful, acknowledging challenges while pointing toward a vision of sexual freedom that is deeply rooted in spiritual truth. For those seeking to align their intimate lives with their faith, this podcast offers a rare combination of biblical perspective and relatable conversation, tackling questions that are rarely addressed so openly in religious settings. Tune in for a journey that reframes sexuality not as a separate struggle, but as a integral, sacred part of a thriving marriage under God's kingdom.
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