44: Healing for the Spouse Hurt by Pornography

44: Healing for the Spouse Hurt by Pornography

Author: Kingdom Sexuality May 24, 2021 Duration: 37:10
You're not going to want to miss this incredible, information-packed episode with Rosie Makinney from @fightforloveministries. Rosie dives right into how the spouse who's been hurt by their spouses pornography usage can find healing despite the grief, betrayal, and broken trust that comes with this issue. Not only does she go into some of the science behind what's going on in the spouse who's watched porn's brain- but she chats about body image and why there's absolutely no need to compare ourselves with the airbrushed women and men on the screen.  This is a big subject to tackle, but Alana and Paris want you to know that you are seen. Your trauma and grief are very real. And there is hope to come through this deep season with an even stronger relationship than before!  If you don't already be sure to follow us on Instagram, @kingdomsexuality, to see weekly sex positions, challenges, giveaways, and so much more! Resources mentioned in the episode: Facebook Support Group: Fight For Love Fellowship Rosie's Book: Fight For Love Julie Slattery's book: Rethinking Sexuality

Hosted by Alana and Kyle, Kingdom Sexuality is a frank and faith-centered conversation about intimacy within Christian marriage. This podcast operates from a core belief: that a vibrant, fulfilling sexual connection is a profound part of God's design for married couples, yet it's a topic often shrouded in silence or confusion within religious communities. Alana and Kyle approach this mission with empathy and honesty, creating a space where listeners can move beyond vague ideals into practical, wholesome realities. They explore why many enter marriage feeling unprepared or carrying unhelpful baggage about sex, and how couples at any stage can rediscover connection and joy. Episodes blend thoughtful discussion, personal "sex-timonies," and interviews with experts, all aimed at demystifying this essential part of the covenant relationship. The tone is both grounded and hopeful, acknowledging challenges while pointing toward a vision of sexual freedom that is deeply rooted in spiritual truth. For those seeking to align their intimate lives with their faith, this podcast offers a rare combination of biblical perspective and relatable conversation, tackling questions that are rarely addressed so openly in religious settings. Tune in for a journey that reframes sexuality not as a separate struggle, but as a integral, sacred part of a thriving marriage under God's kingdom.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

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