87: Changing The Sex Drive Narrative

87: Changing The Sex Drive Narrative

Author: Kingdom Sexuality July 18, 2022 Duration: 22:10
EVERY one of us has differing sexual desires and libido, it’s unique to us, just like our finger print. Yet so many couples struggle and feel isolated when they have varying sex drives from one another. One spouse is typically labeled as "high drive" and the other is "low drive". But should we even be using the term high and low drive? Could it turn into a label that can potentially carry identity? Listen in as Paris and Alana dive deep into varying sexual desire, debunk myths, and shed light on topics usually kept in the darkness. Follow us on Instagram @KingdomSexuality to see so much more! We share weekly couples challenges, connect questions, a Wednesday "Hump Day" sex position, and much more! Check out our website for more resources and our shop: www.kingdomsexualityministry.com Links from today's episode: 30 Prayers For Your Wife Ebook Cultivating A Missional Marriage Episode

Hosted by Alana and Kyle, Kingdom Sexuality is a frank and faith-centered conversation about intimacy within Christian marriage. This podcast operates from a core belief: that a vibrant, fulfilling sexual connection is a profound part of God's design for married couples, yet it's a topic often shrouded in silence or confusion within religious communities. Alana and Kyle approach this mission with empathy and honesty, creating a space where listeners can move beyond vague ideals into practical, wholesome realities. They explore why many enter marriage feeling unprepared or carrying unhelpful baggage about sex, and how couples at any stage can rediscover connection and joy. Episodes blend thoughtful discussion, personal "sex-timonies," and interviews with experts, all aimed at demystifying this essential part of the covenant relationship. The tone is both grounded and hopeful, acknowledging challenges while pointing toward a vision of sexual freedom that is deeply rooted in spiritual truth. For those seeking to align their intimate lives with their faith, this podcast offers a rare combination of biblical perspective and relatable conversation, tackling questions that are rarely addressed so openly in religious settings. Tune in for a journey that reframes sexuality not as a separate struggle, but as a integral, sacred part of a thriving marriage under God's kingdom.
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