90: Navigating Sexual Rejection

90: Navigating Sexual Rejection

Author: Kingdom Sexuality August 8, 2022 Duration: 28:39
You're not going to want to miss this incredible episode on navigating sexual rejection! It's time to have a real moment with yourself next time your partner initiates intimacy and you decline the offer... take a moment to ask yourself: WHY though? If I'm too tired to do this or am I just wanting to do something else? Is this really a 'not tonight's moment' or can it simply be a 'not right now, let me decompress from a hard day' moment?Are you up for other things? A naked body massage, cuddling and kissing, etc. We're NOT saying you have to say "yes" every time if you're not actually in the mood. But sometimes it's VERY easy to 'just say no'. We have to remember that this isn't something that if you tell them no they can go ask one of their buddies if they want to go and do this with them. This is something only you can give. It's a gift that only you can give them they cannot find satisfaction in anything else without breaking God's covenantal design for marriage. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! And check out our website to see our KS merch and incredible ebooks! Links from today's episode: Emotional Intimacy Episode

Hosted by Alana and Kyle, Kingdom Sexuality is a frank and faith-centered conversation about intimacy within Christian marriage. This podcast operates from a core belief: that a vibrant, fulfilling sexual connection is a profound part of God's design for married couples, yet it's a topic often shrouded in silence or confusion within religious communities. Alana and Kyle approach this mission with empathy and honesty, creating a space where listeners can move beyond vague ideals into practical, wholesome realities. They explore why many enter marriage feeling unprepared or carrying unhelpful baggage about sex, and how couples at any stage can rediscover connection and joy. Episodes blend thoughtful discussion, personal "sex-timonies," and interviews with experts, all aimed at demystifying this essential part of the covenant relationship. The tone is both grounded and hopeful, acknowledging challenges while pointing toward a vision of sexual freedom that is deeply rooted in spiritual truth. For those seeking to align their intimate lives with their faith, this podcast offers a rare combination of biblical perspective and relatable conversation, tackling questions that are rarely addressed so openly in religious settings. Tune in for a journey that reframes sexuality not as a separate struggle, but as a integral, sacred part of a thriving marriage under God's kingdom.
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