204: How To Talk About Fantasies, Have Enough Energy For Sex, and More! Ask A Pastor Q&A with Pastor Chris de Monye Part 1

204: How To Talk About Fantasies, Have Enough Energy For Sex, and More! Ask A Pastor Q&A with Pastor Chris de Monye Part 1

Author: That Sounds Fun Network October 7, 2024 Duration: 37:24
Tune into this incredible PART ONE episode of “Ask A Pastor”! The KS team had the pleasure of interviewing Pastor Chris de Monye and asking him all of the questions you sent in on Instagram! Don’t miss it.   Links from today’s episode: Intimacy Through Grief Episode chris@thisisvillagechurch.com @chrisdemonye Time Stamps: 10:40 - How to balance marriage, job, kids, work. We have little desire left at the end of the day for each other 16:27 - Why do I need to have sex if I’m married? 22:06 - Sex seems like yet another item on the list of things that given to men and not women. What are your thoughts on that? 24:50 - How to address my spouse’s fantasies that are not biblical (ie. threesome, etc)? 30:58 - How to address my spouse’s fantasies that are biblical but I’m hesitant? ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Alana, Kyle, and Tiera are three friends navigating the often unspoken terrain of sex and intimacy within Christian marriage. Their conversations form the heart of Kingdom Sexuality, a podcast from the That Sounds Fun Network that moves beyond simplistic advice into honest, practical dialogue. They address the questions many couples wrestle with but feel unequipped to ask in typical church settings-from sustaining passion over decades to understanding how faith intersects with physical desire and specific acts of intimacy. This isn't about presenting a rigid rulebook, but about exploring a journey of transformation together. Through candid discussions and interviews, they create a space where spiritual life and married sexuality are seen as beautifully connected. Each episode aims to replace confusion with clarity and shame with freedom, offering companionship for couples who believe their sex life can be both holy and deeply fulfilling. Tune in for relatable stories, theological insights, and tangible steps toward a more connected marriage, all framed within a perspective of faith and grace.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

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234: Patron's Choice! Sex With The 5 Senses [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 33:30
What if your five senses were the secret to a deeper, more exciting sex life? In this episode, we’re sharing simple, creative ways to engage sight, sound, touch, taste, and smell to build connection, spark arousal, and s…
233: When SHE Is The One Addicted To Porn [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 44:06
Pornography isn’t just a “men’s issue”- and it’s time we talked about it. In this powerful episode, we sit down with a Crystal Renaud Day who shares her raw and redemptive story of overcoming porn addiction as a Christia…
231: How to Deal with Shame in Your Marriage [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 32:44
Huge thank you to Dwell for sponsoring today's episode! Click here to get Dwell for 25% off! Is shame from your past still showing up in your marriage? In this episode, the KS team is talking about how shame, whether fro…
230: The Higher Drive Wife [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 31:08
Feeling like the only wife who wants sex more than her husband? You’re not broken - and you’re not alone. In this episode, the KS team dives deep into the heart of the higher drive wife: the identity struggles, the churc…
229: Slip & Slide: All About Lube [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 52:28
Big thank you to Evree for sponsoring today's episode! Use the code KINGDOM10 to get it for 10% off! Want to keep things smooth in the bedroom? 😉 In this episode of the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast, we’re diving into the wo…
228: PATRON'S CHOICE! Level Up Your Sex Life [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 54:18
Wanting to take your intimate life to the next level? Or curious as to what else you and your spouse could do to add some extra spice and fun into the bedroom? In this episode, we will break down several things you can d…
226: Q&A: Swallowing, Different Drives, & Postpartum Slump [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 29:22
You asked, they answer! The KS Team answers questions sent in on Instagram, and they do not hold back! Tune in now! Links from today’s episode: My Counselor Online (You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with…
225: Sexual Confidence [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 41:40
What does being a sexually confident Christian look like? And HOW do you become one?? Tune in now to hear the KS team chat about it! Links from today’s episode: Figuring Out What I Like Guide KS Shop Intimately Us app He…