286: Losing The Lover In The Mother

286: Losing The Lover In The Mother

Author: That Sounds Fun Network May 4, 2026 Duration: 37:07
Ever feel like you love your kids and your marriage, but you’re exhausted and wondering where you went? In this episode, we talk honestly about the tension between motherhood, marriage, and identity, and how to get back into "lover" mode. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Is The Mental Load Killing Your Sex Life? With Dr. Morgan Cutlip Our Products: Her Turn Sex Challenge After Hours: Parents Edition Sex Challenge   Resources: A Better Share ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Timestamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Verse of the Day: Proverbs 31 - 1:17 Losing Identity in Motherhood - 1:39 Balancing Motherhood and Marriage - 3:00 The Mental Load of Motherhood - 4:09 Postpartum Changes and Challenges - 8:40 Husbands' Role in Supporting Wives - 14:39 Reclaiming Identity and Intimacy - 21:30 Practical Tips for Couples - 25:01 Closing Thoughts and Prayer - 33:57 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Alana, Kyle, and Tiera are three friends navigating the often unspoken terrain of sex and intimacy within Christian marriage. Their conversations form the heart of Kingdom Sexuality, a podcast from the That Sounds Fun Network that moves beyond simplistic advice into honest, practical dialogue. They address the questions many couples wrestle with but feel unequipped to ask in typical church settings-from sustaining passion over decades to understanding how faith intersects with physical desire and specific acts of intimacy. This isn't about presenting a rigid rulebook, but about exploring a journey of transformation together. Through candid discussions and interviews, they create a space where spiritual life and married sexuality are seen as beautifully connected. Each episode aims to replace confusion with clarity and shame with freedom, offering companionship for couples who believe their sex life can be both holy and deeply fulfilling. Tune in for relatable stories, theological insights, and tangible steps toward a more connected marriage, all framed within a perspective of faith and grace.
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257: Testosterone: How It Affects Sex For Men and Women [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 44:10
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256: Overcoming Sexual Trauma with Psychotherapist Erin Walsh [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:06:32
This episode is sponsored by the Dwell Audio Bible App! Click here to get Dwell for 25% off! Join us and ‘press play’ on scripture! In this powerful and tender conversation, we sit down with therapist Erin Walsh to unpac…
255: Does More Sleep = More Sex? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 31:46
This episode is sponsored by ⁠Brooklyn Bedding⁠! Go to brooklynbedding.com, promo code KINGDOM for 30% off sitewide! Does being well-rested really boost your desire? In this episode, the KS team will dive into what scien…
253: Ladies Q&A! Libido in Pregnancy, Intense Orgasms, & Painful Sex [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 29:58
This episode is sponsored by ⁠Brooklyn Bedding⁠! Go to brooklynbedding.com, promo code KINGDOM for 30% off sitewide! In this special Q&A, Alana and Tiera are answering real questions sent in by women! Everything from nav…
251: Myth Busters [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 31:45
We’re busting some of the biggest myths around sex and intimacy in marriage- from “sex should be just like the movies” to “men always want it more” to “you’ll just automatically know what to do in bed.” We’ll unpack the…
250: Is Your Phone Ruining Your Marriage? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 44:25
Is your phone stealing from your marriage? In this episode, we unpack how tech can quietly kill intimacy, connection, and trust - and share practical ways to set boundaries, guard your heart, and put your spouse before y…
249: Friendship, Sex, and the Way of Jesus with Justin Whitmel Earley [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 55:32
This episode is sponsored by the Dwell Audio Bible App! Click here to get Dwell for 25% off! Join us and ‘press play’ on scripture! Join Alana and Kyle as they sit down with author, lawyer, and speaker Justin Whitmel Ear…
248: When 'The Ick' Creeps In [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 25:37
Ever had that random moment where your spouse does something totally normal… and it suddenly makes you cringe? Welcome to “the ick.” The KS Team unpacks why it happens, how it can sneak into your sex life, and practical…