287: The Sex Talk You Never Got with Sam Jolman

287: The Sex Talk You Never Got with Sam Jolman

Author: That Sounds Fun Network May 11, 2026 Duration: 48:31
What if your sexuality was meant to be approached with awe instead of fear? In this episode, Kyle and Tiera chat with Sam Jolman about shame, the difference between arousal and desire, and how reclaiming sensuality as sacred can lead to healing, and freedom! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources: The Sex Talk You Never Got   Better Sex Through Mindfulness Sam Jolman’s Substack  ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Timestamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Discussion on Sexuality and Faith - 1:20 Sam's Personal Journey - 3:08 Exploring Masculine Sexuality - 6:24 Arousal and Desire - 13:41 Sensuality and Spirituality - 15:52 Shame and Evil - 33:49 Conclusion and Prayer - 44:25 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Alana, Kyle, and Tiera are three friends navigating the often unspoken terrain of sex and intimacy within Christian marriage. Their conversations form the heart of Kingdom Sexuality, a podcast from the That Sounds Fun Network that moves beyond simplistic advice into honest, practical dialogue. They address the questions many couples wrestle with but feel unequipped to ask in typical church settings-from sustaining passion over decades to understanding how faith intersects with physical desire and specific acts of intimacy. This isn't about presenting a rigid rulebook, but about exploring a journey of transformation together. Through candid discussions and interviews, they create a space where spiritual life and married sexuality are seen as beautifully connected. Each episode aims to replace confusion with clarity and shame with freedom, offering companionship for couples who believe their sex life can be both holy and deeply fulfilling. Tune in for relatable stories, theological insights, and tangible steps toward a more connected marriage, all framed within a perspective of faith and grace.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

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299: Butt Stuff- All About Anal Sex Part 2 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

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