#450 Dying to Ourselves

#450 Dying to Ourselves

Author: CJ and Shelley Hitz: Writing Mentor, Author Coach, Christian Writers August 6, 2025 Duration: 22:19

Dying to Ourselves

How would you answer this question if God asked you…

"If I should hand you a silver platter with one item, what would you like?"

Perhaps the best answer: "Give me your will for my life, O God, with this, there is nothing more."

S.D. Gordon relates a similar experience, "I sometimes thought, what if God were to say to me: 'I want to give you something as special as a love-gift; an extra because I love you: what would you like to have?' Do you know what I thought I would say? 'Dear God, you choose. I choose what You choose.'

An example of me asking Shelley where she would like to eat. Sometimes she responds, "You choose, I have decision fatigue." 😂

"He walked away, about a stone's throw, and knelt down and prayed, "Father, if you are willing, please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine." Then an angel from heaven appeared and strengthened him. He prayed more fervently, and he was in such agony of spirit that his sweat fell to the ground like great drops of blood." - ‭‭Luke‬ ‭22‬:‭41‬-‭44‬ ‭

Christ died in Gethsemane before He ever died on the cross. Have you been to Gethsemane? 

As you and I die to ourselves, our own plans, our own agenda, our own ideas of how our books will turn out, we allow our Father's will to take place.

The Kingdom writer is willing to die long before they take their last breath.

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There’s a particular kind of resistance that comes with writing something you believe matters-a mix of doubt, distraction, and sometimes, sheer weariness. Kingdom Writers: A Podcast for Christian Writers of All Genres meets you right in that space. Hosts CJ and Shelley Hitz, who work as writing mentors and author coaches, understand that the journey to finishing your book isn't just about craft; it's a spiritual undertaking. Each episode blends practical guidance with heartfelt spiritual encouragement, often weaving in prayers specifically for the hurdles writers face. Whether you're drafting a novel, a memoir, or a devotional, the conversation here rests on a core belief: your story has a purpose and you have a unique role to play. This podcast feels like a dedicated writing session with friends who get it, offering both the tools and the faith-filled perspective to keep moving forward. Tune in for honest talks about the writing life, all grounded in the encouragement that your work can impact lives in meaningful, lasting ways.
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