#37 Bryce and Michele on Falling in Love while Learning Each Other's Language

#37 Bryce and Michele on Falling in Love while Learning Each Other's Language

Author: Fluent in 3 Months February 15, 2021 Duration: 46:44

This episode features Bryce, who learned conversational Portuguese in just 90 days with the Fluent in 3 Months Challenge.

We actually guarantee that anyone who completes the Fluent in 3 Months Challenge will have a 15-minute conversation in their new language after 90 days of learning. You can find out more here.

In this episode, Benny and Shannon talk with two Fluent in 3 Months Challenge participants, Bryce and Michele, who are husband and wife learning their native languages with help from one another.

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Episode Overview

Some of the topics brought up during the interview are:

  • Connecting with your partner and their family through their native language
  • Speaking Portuguese for an hour during the Fluent in 3 Months Challenge
  • Language learning milestones and building confidence
  • Learning English while living in Kansas and dealing with culture shock
  • Having patience with your partner
  • Falling in love as a motivation
  • Raising multilingual children and connecting with them through language
  • How to practice a language with your partner
  • Approaching language learning like an air infantryman
  • Using Dream Teams in the Fluent in 3 Months Challenge
  • Bringing Brazilian culture into the American home
  • Advice for when you and your partner don’t speak the same language

Podcast theme: “A New Beginning” by Shannon Kennedy

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