The Day I Made a Friend Entirely Through Indonesian

The Day I Made a Friend Entirely Through Indonesian

Author: Fluent in 3 Months May 26, 2025 Duration: 9:28

In this episode of the Language and Travel Hacking Podcast, I’m checking in from deep in the jungles of Borneo — or Kalimantan, as it’s called here in Indonesia — surrounded by orangutans, dense rainforest, and the kind of real-life language immersion I’ve been aiming for since the start of this journey. After nearly five months exploring the country, including a two-month trek across Java and a recent stay in Batam with $30 ocean views (just across the water from pricey Singapore), I’m finally seeing major progress in my Indonesian: I’ve begun having full, meaningful conversations and even making new friends entirely in the language — no English safety net.

Of course, the road hasn’t been smooth the entire way. I share some honest moments of confusion, including why I still struggle to catch parking fees (yes, even numbers trip me up sometimes!) and how dialect differences can make even the basics a challenge. But I’m feeling more confident than ever, just in time for the next leg of the trip — from East to West Borneo, then on to Sulawesi and Sumatra, where I’ll rarely come across other foreigners. If you’re starting your own language learning journey and want personalised advice, you can book a consultation with me here. I’d love to help you through any hurdles you’re facing — and for a limited time, I’m offering these sessions at half the usual rate.

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There’s a certain magic that happens when you step off a plane and try to order a meal in a language you’re still fumbling through, or when a simple conversation with a stranger on a train opens up an entirely new perspective. Language & Travel Hacking, from the team behind Fluent in 3 Months, lives in those messy, authentic, and profoundly rewarding moments. Host Benny Lewis, a nomadic polyglot and best-selling author, doesn’t just theorize from a studio; he records from the road, sharing raw, real-time experiences and the practical strategies that actually work when you’re navigating a foreign market or building confidence in a new tongue. Each episode feels like a candid chat with a well-traveled friend who’s made all the mistakes so you don’t have to. You’ll hear the sounds of street markets and train stations in the background as Benny breaks down the psychology of language learning, offers actionable tips for picking up phrases quickly, and discusses how travel itself can be the ultimate classroom. This podcast is built on the idea that fluency and cultural connection aren’t distant goals reserved for the gifted, but accessible skills you can hack through smart, intentional practice. It’s for anyone who believes that the deepest way to explore a place is through its language, and that every journey is an opportunity to reshape how you see the world-and yourself. Tune in for honest stories and tangible advice that will change how you approach your next adventure, whether it’s across the globe or right in your own neighborhood.
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