S4 E4: Shame, ADHD & Healing

S4 E4: Shame, ADHD & Healing

Author: Dr. Janice Castro November 19, 2025 Duration: 20:26

In this episode of Latine ADHD, host Dr. Janice Castro sits down with Chantall Hernandez, LMFT, a Latina relationship therapist and founder of Generational Mental Wellness Therapy, who shares her personal story of being diagnosed with ADHD and learning to break the shame cycle through self-compassion.

We talk about how negative self-talk shows up when ADHD symptoms like forgetfulness or losing items trigger frustration and how small mindset shifts can help us respond with kindness instead of criticism. Chantall opens up about her late diagnosis, how growing up without answers affected her self-esteem, and the powerful practice of saying “hold on” before shame takes over.

This conversation reminds us that healing starts with how we speak to ourselves and that compassion is a radical act of self-love in our comunidad.

Connect with Chantall Hernandez: 

Instagram: @Chantall.lmft

Website: https://chantalllmft.clientsecure.me/  

 

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Latine ADHD is hosted by licensed psychologist Dr. Janice Castro. This podcast creates a dedicated space examining the unique intersection of neurodiversity and cultural identity, focusing on the Latine experience with ADHD. It moves beyond generic advice to explore how cultural expectations, family dynamics, and community perspectives shape the understanding and management of attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder. Listeners will hear candid conversations with mental health professionals, researchers, and individuals sharing personal narratives, all aimed at dismantling stigma and fostering practical resilience. The discussions provide actionable strategies that acknowledge cultural context, whether navigating family conversations, workplace challenges, or educational systems. Episodes might delve into topics like the nuances of diagnosis within diverse communities, co-occurring conditions, or holistic approaches to well-being that integrate mind and body. This isn't just a podcast about symptoms; it's about the lived experience, offering culturally relevant insights that help listeners feel understood and equipped. Dr. Castro guides these explorations with expertise and empathy, making complex psychological concepts accessible. The podcast serves as a resource for anyone personally touched by ADHD, supporting caregivers, educators, and clinicians seeking a deeper, more culturally informed perspective in their work or personal lives.
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