100. What They Don't Tell You About Breakups

100. What They Don't Tell You About Breakups

Author: LGBTQ+ Podcast by Jojo & Dayra April 22, 2024 Duration: 1:11:17

In EP 100, we delve into the complexities of lesbian breakups, exploring why they often hit harder than others. Drawing from an insightful article by "Amelia on Refinery 29", we examine how women tend to deeply enmesh in relationships, blurring lines between partners, friends, and family. Nicholas Rose, a psychotherapist specializing in queer relationships, sheds light on the challenges queer individuals face during breakups, especially when familial support is lacking.

We confront stereotypes surrounding lesbian relationships. Additionally, we share insights on coping with breakups, from embracing emotions to nurturing oneself.

LES CHAT QUEER TRIP: https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/jojo-ygxec (takes about 2 mins)

LES CHAT MEET UP: FRIDAY NIGHT, APRIL 26TH @ PORTA'S

Family Meeting Questions:

1. " My girlfriend broke up with me and she stated she’s giving her life to God and she doesn’t feel right being gay anymore".

2. "Call me DELUSIONAL but i’m so determined to meet my future wife, i'm taking a flight to Manchester UK"


Podcast Description:

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There's a particular kind of conversation that happens when you're among friends who truly get where you're coming from-raw, honest, and often hilarious. That's the space Les Chat Podcast-LGBTQ+-Lesbian Latinas creates. Hosted by Jojo and Dayra, a queer couple whose dynamic is as engaging as their insights, this podcast feels less like a formal show and more like pulling up a chair at their kitchen table. Their discussions are grounded in the specific, vibrant intersection of being both Latina and part of the LGBTQIA+ community, drawing from their own life experiences alongside those of friends and family who are either in the community or staunch allies. You'll hear them dive into the messy, beautiful, and complicated realities of relationships, sex, and dating, while also unpacking topics like labels, the reclamation of slurs, and breaking down stereotypes. It’s storytelling with a point of view, where personal anecdotes open up into broader conversations about identity and culture. Tuning into this podcast means getting a genuine, unfiltered look into a world that is often misunderstood, all delivered with the warmth and familiarity of a long-overdue chat with your favorite people.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas
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