Power Struggles Explained: Why Kids Push Back and What to Do - 342

Power Struggles Explained: Why Kids Push Back and What to Do - 342

Author: Pam Howard February 25, 2025 Duration: 9:04

You ask your child to turn off their iPad and get ready to leave the house, but instead of action, you get a heavy, dramatic exhale that says, "Do I have to?"

You ask again, this time firmer. Nothing.

And just like that, what should've been a simple request turns into a full-blown power struggle.

In this week's episode, I'm breaking down what's really going on beneath those exhausting battles and sharing simple strategies to help you shift the dynamic without losing your authority (or your sanity).

Because it's not about the shoes, the iPad, or leaving the house. And it's definitely not just about defiance.

Something deeper is happening in these moments, and once you understand it, you can stop getting stuck in the same frustrating cycle.

If you're done with endless back-and-forth arguments, and ready for less resistance and more connection, this episode will show you how to break the cycle without yelling, nagging, or frustration.

https://lessdramamoremama.com/342


Pam Howard brings a refreshingly practical voice to the often chaotic world of parenting with Less Drama More Mama. Drawing from her unique background as a Master Certified Life Coach, a licensed clinical social worker, and a former school counselor, she moves beyond theory to offer real, usable strategies for everyday family life. This isn't about achieving perfection; it's about replacing overwhelm with a sense of grounded confidence. Each episode feels like a conversation with a knowledgeable friend who truly gets it. Pam weaves together personal anecdotes from her own journey as a mom with anonymized case studies from her coaching practice, creating a relatable and insightful listen. You'll find specific life coaching tools and perspectives designed to transform those moments of feeling frazzled or disconnected into opportunities for calm and stronger bonds with your kids. The Less Drama More Mama podcast is a resource for any parent looking to cultivate more peace and less reactivity at home, covering topics that span child development, educational challenges, and personal growth. It’s a space where the focus shifts from simply managing behavior to understanding the underlying dynamics, empowering you to handle what comes your way with more grace and less guilt.
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