Why Big Changes Don't Stick (And What Actually Works for Moms) - 335

Why Big Changes Don't Stick (And What Actually Works for Moms) - 335

Author: Pam Howard January 7, 2025 Duration: 7:34

January is here, and with it, the endless push for big, bold resolutions: de-cluttering half your house, cutting out every "bad" food, swearing off yelling forever.

It all sounds so promising, doesn't it? 

Unfortunately, most of these massive changes don't last. In fact, the research shows they almost never do.

In this week's episode, I'm sharing why your brain resists those dramatic overhauls and what actually works to create lasting change.

https://lessdramamoremama.com/335


Pam Howard brings a refreshingly practical voice to the often chaotic world of parenting with Less Drama More Mama. Drawing from her unique background as a Master Certified Life Coach, a licensed clinical social worker, and a former school counselor, she moves beyond theory to offer real, usable strategies for everyday family life. This isn't about achieving perfection; it's about replacing overwhelm with a sense of grounded confidence. Each episode feels like a conversation with a knowledgeable friend who truly gets it. Pam weaves together personal anecdotes from her own journey as a mom with anonymized case studies from her coaching practice, creating a relatable and insightful listen. You'll find specific life coaching tools and perspectives designed to transform those moments of feeling frazzled or disconnected into opportunities for calm and stronger bonds with your kids. The Less Drama More Mama podcast is a resource for any parent looking to cultivate more peace and less reactivity at home, covering topics that span child development, educational challenges, and personal growth. It’s a space where the focus shifts from simply managing behavior to understanding the underlying dynamics, empowering you to handle what comes your way with more grace and less guilt.
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