We Never Said What Cheating Was — And That Was the Problem with Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S

We Never Said What Cheating Was — And That Was the Problem with Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S

Author: Dr. Diane Mueller April 16, 2026 Duration: 24:45
You've been stewing over something your partner did — or maybe you're the one who did something and keeps telling yourself it didn't count — and either way, nobody in this marriage ever actually wrote the rules down. After listening, you'll understand that most betrayals don't start with a choice to cheat; they start with two people who assumed their definitions of "faithful" were the same without ever checking. If this episode made you want to start rebuilding that physical connection, Dr. Diane's free video e-book gives you a step-by-step strategy to get there — grab it at mylibidodoc.com/libido-video-ebook.

In the quiet space between public image and private reality, many long-term relationships face a subtle, often unspoken shift. Libido Lounge is a conversation about that specific gap, hosted by Board Certified Sexologist Dr. Diane Mueller. This isn't about crisis or scandal, but the gradual fading of a vital connection that leaves couples wondering how they got here. Dr. Mueller moves beyond superficial advice to explore the complex interplay of biology, culture, daily stress, and personal history that shapes our intimate lives. You'll hear frank discussions that normalize common struggles, dissect societal myths, and provide actionable insights grounded in both science and clinical experience. The podcast considers the whole person-how fitness and health intersect with emotional bonds, and how societal pressures quietly influence our most private moments. Each episode is designed to offer clarity and practical pathways forward, whether the topic is rekindling desire, navigating mismatched drives, or simply understanding the mechanics of human sexuality within a committed partnership. For anyone feeling that something essential has quietly disappeared behind a still-fine facade, Libido Lounge provides a thoughtful, expert-guided space for exploration and understanding.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 125

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Girlfriend Edition #4: Is JEALOUSY Ruining Your Relationship? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 46:24
Is jealousy ruining your relationship? In this Girlfriend edition of Libido Lounge, you will learn how to identify the signs of jealousy and how to overcome it to build a stronger and healthier partnership. We'll dive in…
Girlfriend Edition #3: Is AWKWARD SEX Ruining Your Relationship? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 36:47
Is your intimate life filled with awkward moments that are leaving you and your partner feeling frustrated and disconnected? In this Girlfriend Edition of the Libido Lounge, Dr. Diane and her friends Ruby, Cosmos, and Yo…
Why Compromise Does Not Work With Dr. Alexandra Stockwell [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 35:42
Do you often find yourself compromising in relationships, work, or life in general? Do you wonder if compromise really works for you or against you? In this thought-provoking video, we explore the concept of compromise a…
Can You Heal From Betrayal with Dr. Bruce Chalmer [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 33:29
Healing from betrayal can be a daunting task, but is it possible to truly move on from the hurt and pain? In this video, we explore the concept of healing from betrayal and provide guidance on how to start the process of…