How to be a working parent? Lower your standards

How to be a working parent? Lower your standards

Author: NPR April 13, 2026 Duration: 25:53
From brain fog to identity crises to complicated feelings of guilt (or relief), returning to work as a new parent can be daunting. Luckily, you don't need to navigate this transition alone. Life Kit reporter Andee Tagle talks to working parents and experts about how to balance a job, parenting and being a person all at once.

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