Gangbang the Mailbag 39 with Bex Caputo and Kevin Patterson

Gangbang the Mailbag 39 with Bex Caputo and Kevin Patterson

Author: Swingset.FM December 30, 2019 Duration: 1:02:23

That Swingset mailbag we all know and love was getting pretty full of listener questions. And since there is always a swing available on the Swingset, Dylan and Ginger invited Bex Caputo and Kevin Patterson to share their wisdom. The foursome takes on questions about mono-polyam relationship sustainability, supporting your partner's dating life, and finds time to catch up about some awesome life updates.

And buy Kevin's fantastic new book, "For Hire: Audition."

 

We answer a listener voicemail on internalized feelings of guilt and shame, then proceed to answer the following emailed in questions:

 

Question 1:

I am half of a swinging/polyamorous couple. I have a fantastic dating life and want my husband to too! For some reason, he won't put himself out there because he said he feel like a creeper. He is, I think, overly respectful in that he thinks the not cool "single guy" baggage applies to him and it just isn't true. How can I get him to get out there? He will make a woman or some women in addition to me very happy.

Question 2:

We have been open for two years and have recently decided to be polyamorous. My husband will be remaining monogamous, but I feel I am my truest self if I am polyamorous.

I have been in a friends with benefits type situation with someone I now have strong feelings for. He is monogamous and I am unsure if he would be willing to date me. How do I go about talking to him about this?

I guess my question is, is a mono-poly relationship sustainable?

 

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Life on the Swingset-The Swinging & Polyamory Podcast is a long-running conversation from the team at Swingset.FM. It lives in the real, sometimes messy world of consensual non-monogamy, offering perspectives that are grounded in experience rather than theory. Each episode feels like pulling up a chair to a candid kitchen-table talk among friends who’ve been there. You’ll hear unfiltered debates on navigating jealousy, practical interviews about setting boundaries, and frank discussions about the intersection of sex, love, and personal freedom. The podcast delves into the emotional logistics and unexpected joys of open relationships, swinging, and polyamory, treating them as valid and complex ways of living and loving. It’s about the actual work and the profound rewards of building intimacy on your own terms. This is a show for anyone curious about or already living an alternative relationship style, providing a sense of community and a wealth of “from-the-trenches” insights. The discussions are both sexy and serious, always aiming to explore what it means to cultivate an open heart and an open life in a society that doesn’t always understand. Tune in for a podcast that is as much about personal authenticity as it is about sexuality.
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